Ngokuqinisekileyo eli binzana elithi "ubulili ongenamandla" lenza ukuba ube nemizwa ephikisanayo. Ukungabi namandla kukuba sisifo esibonisa ukungakwazi komntu ukuba alalane ngesondo. Apha sicinga ngengxaki yexesha elilodwa, kodwa isondo soqhophololo " Ngoko, luhlobo luni lwesondo olukhoyo?
Senzani nale nto?
Iimbangela zokungaziphathi ziingxaki zesicwangciso somzimba nesokwengqondo. Ngombuzo wendlela yokuqalisa ukungenamandla, kuya kwenzeka ukuba uphendule kuphela emva kokugqiba imbangela yesi sifo. Ukuba ukungenasiphelo kuye kwavela ngenxa yesifo (isifo sikashukela, umfutho wegazi ophezulu, i-atherosclerosis), kuya kufuneka ukuba unyango oluyinkimbinkimbi lujolise ekubuyiseleni ubuchule, kodwa, okokuqala, ukunyangwa kwesifo. Kwimeko apho ukungabi namandla kubangelwa yimpilo yengqondo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ujonge umntu kunye naluphi na "amaqhinga amabhinqa".
Indoda engenamandla ayikho isigwebo kuzo zonke. Ukuba umfazi uzibamba esithi "Ndiyakuthanda kwaye ndifuna le ndoda", le meko ingenza umntu ongenamandla onamandla. Ukuba eso sifo sibonakala sichasene nemvelaphi yeengxaki zengqondo, ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuseka imbangela yesifo kunye nokuyiqeda. Amathuba okunceda umntu ukuba asombulule ingxaki yakhe kwintombi kwimeko eninzi. Yonke into incike kwizinga lokuthembela phakathi kwamalingani kunye nokuzimisela komnye ukuncedisa omnye, kunye nelinye - ukuba lwamkele olu luncedo. Thetha ngokunyanisekileyo kunye nomntu wakho, funani oko kukukhathazayo. Mhlawumbi, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ubunzima obufihlakeleyo, ukwesaba - kumnceda ukuba aziqonde. Makhe azive ukuba uthatha inxaxheba kunye nokunyamekela.
Ukuzimisela komntu ukujongana nale ngxaki engathandeki kuxhomekeke kwintando kunye nenhlonipho yowesifazane. Ukuba umntu uyakuxabisa, ufuna ukukuvuyisa kwaye uya kukukholisa, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuzama zonke iindlela zokwenza unyango, kunye kunye unokusombulula le ngxaki.