Amaphupha ayamnandi kwaye ayamnandi, ahlekisayo kwaye ankwantya. Ngamanye amaxesha uvuka ulinde into enandi, kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo uya kugxeka. Kukho kwakhona iphupha elingaqhelekanga ukuba ufuna ukubamba incwadi yephupha uze ubone ukuba lithetha ukuthini lo mbono.
Iphupha ngothando
Phakathi kwamaphupha anxulumene nothando kunokuthiwa kwaye ubuthongo malunga nedama . Enyanisweni, ndiyazi ukuba kuthini ukugibela echibini, ngokukodwa ukuba liphupha umntu ongenakuzonwabisa ukubhukuda.
Ukuqwalasela zonke iincwadi zokuphupha, imibono enjalo ihambelana nesondo kunye nemizwa evelele. Oku, ngokuqhelekileyo, i-omen efanelekileyo, ihlala iprofeta into entle.
Umzekelo, ukulala ebhodini lokubhukuda ngamanzi acocekileyo kuthathwa njengempumelelo. Ubonisa umntu oqhelana nomntu ophuphayo, kwaye banokuba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo.
NgokukaFreud, ngentombazana, ukulala kwindawo yokudoba kuthetha ukukhulelwa, njengoko eguqulela amaphupha echibini, echibini kunye nezinye izidumbu zamanzi ezidibeneyo. Ngokomdali weemfundiso zentloko, bathetha isibeleko. Ukungena echibini kuthetha ukukhulelwa ngokukhawuleza.
Ngokwezinye iincwadi zokuphupha, ukubhukuda echibini, xa kubonwa kwiphupha, akuthi luthando lonke, kodwa luthando kuphela kwaye lungenangqiqo. Iphupha ligijimela kulo, njengesiqhwithi somoya, kodwa isiphelo siya kuba sisifo. Uthando olunjalo luya kugqitywa ngexesha lokuphuka.
Ezinye iinguqulelo
Kukho neenguqulelo ezingahambelani nothando kunye neemvakalelo zethenda. Ngokomzekelo, ezinye iinguqulelo zikholelwa ukuba ukubhukuda kunokuthetha isiphakamiso seshishini, ekuboneni kokuqala kubonakala kunenzuzo kwaye kuyonwabile. Nangona kunjalo, inokuphinda ibe nobuqhetseba, ngoko kufuneka siqikelele ngokucophelela i-pros and cons. Yaye ukuba umphumi ehamba edameni ngaphandle kokuzonwabisa,
Ngoko ke, ukuba umntu unomdla kwizinto aphuphayo zokubhukuda kwisibini esicocekileyo, ngoko iimpendulo zihlala zilungile, kwaye izibikezelo ziyamnandi. Kungomnye umba ukuba amanzi ayingcolileyo. Emva koko umphuphi uya kuba neengxaki ngokufezekiswa kweengcamango zakhe.
Ngokufanayo, iphupha litshilwa, apho ugibela khona echibini kunye nendoda ephupheni. Ukuba amanzi ahlambulukile, avulekileyo, ngoko ke kubudlelwane obuhle okanye kwiindaba ezilungileyo. Kodwa ukuba amanzi ayingcolileyo, ngoko kulungile: ubuhlobo buya kuba luvuyo, kwaye iindaba zibuhlungu. Kodwa musa ukuphelelwa yithemba, kuba kungekhona ukulala kuthethwa into embi.