Ngamanye amaxesha kunomnqweno wokunika umntu osondeleyo kunye nomntu othandekayo into ethile. Kwaye umntu uqala ukucinga ngokunikela uphawu okanye umnqamlezo. Kukho uphawu lokuba unikele umnqamlezo lubi. Ngokwale nkolelo, iziphambano zinikelwe ngumntu obangela ukubandezeleka, intlungu, izingozi, iingxaki zempilo kunye nokuhluleka. Kule nqaku, uya kufunda malunga nokuba kunokwenzeka yini ukunika iminqamlezo yegolide, kwaye ziziphi iimpawu ezinxulumene nazo.
Kutheni unganiki umnqamlezo ukuvala abantu? Kukho uluvo lokuba isipho eso singenziwa kuphela xa ubhaptizwa . Kwesinye iimeko, kukholelwa ukuba esi sipho siya kutsala umntu omnye kwaye mhlawumbi ukufa ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa enyanisweni, icawa ayinanto malunga nezipho ezinjalo kwaye iinkolelo ezinjalo ziphikisiwe kwaye zichaswa. Ngokwabefundisi, ngokuchaseneyo, umnqamlezo owenziwe uya kuba yintsikelelo kunye nentsikelelo kaThixo. Ngako oko, umbuzo malunga nokuba iminqamlezo inikezelwa, inempendulo efanelekileyo, kwaye ukuba ufuna ukunika umntu onendleko into enjalo, ngoko unokwenza ngaphandle kokwesaba.
Enyanisweni, ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, iOthodoki inesiko esihle - ukunika abantu abathandekayo umnqamlezo. Ngokutsho kweenkolo zonqulo, umnqamlezo uyintsikelelo evela phezulu. Ngendlela, umendo wokutshintshana umthamo wesizalo wenza abantu "izalamane zokomoya", "abazalwana babini". Ukususela ngoku ku funeka ba thandane. Kule nkalo, ibandla liyalahla zonke iinkolelo ezinxulumene nelokuba ukunikela umnqamlezo kukubi.
Ngubani onganika umnqamlezo?
Ngethuba lokuqala umnqamlezo ubeka phezu kwendoda ngexesha leSigramente yobhaptizo, kwaye le nto ayiyintsika, kodwa ithatha intsingiselo enkulu ye-Sacral. Oku akukona nje umqondiso wokholo ebuKristwini, kodwa kunye nomlindi, ukukhuselwa komntu kunoma yiphi imikhosi engalunganga. Umnqamlezo unganikwa ngunkulunkulu okanye u-godfather ngaphambi kwe-Epiphany, kwaye kunye nalo mnqamlezo kufuneka uhambe ubomi bakho bonke. Xa umntu ebeka phezu kwakhe, umthandazo okhethekileyo ubizwa.
Esi sizathu sokuba abantu abangengabo oothixo abanganiki umnqamlezo. Umnqamlezo uguqulwe kanye kunye nobomi bonke, ukufihla phantsi kweengubo - akuvunyelwanga ukutyhila umnqamlezo wokubukela uluntu. Kule nkalo, akukho mfuneko yokunika umnqamlezo omnye njengomyalezo ongenakulibaleka.
Ngaba banikela iminqamlezo kwezinye izizathu kunokubhaptizwa? Ngokomgaqo, oku akukhangekanga. Abanye banikela ukuzalwa kwabo kwimikhosi yokuzalwa okanye iintsuku zokuzalwa. Isimo esiphezulu saleso sipho - kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba i-addressee yesipho ngumkholelwa othi ungumKristu. Kubalulekile ukubonisa umlenze njengesipho kuphela ngeengcamango ezingcolileyo, ngaphandle kokucinga ngeengxaki kunye nobunzima kulo mzuzwana. Isipho esinjalo siya kuxabiswa nangakumbi xa sihlanjululwa kwaye sithathwe kwiidumi
Xa ukhetha umnqamlezo wesipho, landela yakho intle kwaye uthathe into oyithandayo. Ukongezelela emnqamlezweni, ungathenga i-icon yangasese eya kufana negama elinikezwe kwi-Epiphany okanye kwisiqhumiso.
Ngoko ke, qiniseka ukuba uphawu olungabalulekanga ukunikela umnqamlezo lukholelwa nje ngeenkolelo . Kholwa kuyo okanye awukho - ilungelo lakho. Umnqamlezo, nokuba uthe wafunyanwa ngengozi, akayi kuzisa ukugula komnini omtsha, ububi, ukungonwabi nangakumbi, ukufa kwangaphambi kokufa.
Ukuba usenokugqiba ukunikela umnqamlezo, kucetyiswa ukuba ungcwelise ngaphambili kwibandla.