Kwinkoliso yabantu, amangcwaba abangela iimvakalelo ezingenakunqwenela, kunye nokwesaba okukhoyo phakathi kwabantu nakumaxesha amandulo. Konke oku kubangela ukuba kukho iintlobo zeenkolelo , ngokomzekelo, abaninzi banokuzibuza ukuba baya emangcwabeni ngoLwesithathu, kwaye xa kulunge kakhulu. Imiqondiso ayilona umyalelo kwaye ayifanele iphoqelelwe ngabani na, ngoko ke wonke umntu unokhetho nokuba uya kulandela okanye cha.
Kutheni bengaya emangcwabeni ngoLwesithathu?
Uninzi lwabantu luyakwamukela ngenxa yokugcinwa kwabantu, kwaye ezinye zivele zibonakalise nje iingcamango. Ukongezelela, kwimihla yamandulo, iimpawu zaphela yindlela yokulawula abantu, ngoko, mhlawumbi, ukuvalwa malunga nokuhamba ngoLwesithathu emangcwabeni kwaqulunqwa ngenxa yeemeko.
Ukuze ufumane impendulo kumbuzo oyintloko, kufuneka ukhangele kwiBhayibhile ukuze ufumane uluvo lwabafundisi. Icawa inquma iintsuku ezibalulekileyo xa ukuhambela amatye abantu abasondeleyo kufuneka. Okokuqala kuzo zonke iinkxalabo zemihla yokukhunjulwa: ngomhla we-3, umhla we-9 kunye no-40 emva kokufa. Kunconywa ukuba uye emangcwabeni ngosuku lokufa komntu, uRadonitsa kunye neMigqibelo, kuba le mihla ithathwa njengomngcwabo. Kwiintsuku ezili-8 ngaphambi kweMfazwe ePhambili yePatriotic, iSabatha ibhiyozelwa kunye nenyama. Abaninzi baya kutyelela emangcwabeni abantu abafayo ngomhla woButhathu Oyingcwele, kodwa icawa ayilungisi, ngoko ke ukuba kukho umnqweno wokutyelela abafileyo, kungcono ukwenza oko ngeveki leholide ngosuku lomhla woButhathu oMnye uMzali ngoMgqibelo.
Ngoku sifuna ukufumanisa ukuba kunokwenzeka yini ukuya emangcwabeni ngoLwesithathu, kwaye nokuba kubalulekile ukuba ube nosuku lweveki ukuvakashela izihlobo nabahlobo abafile. Enyanisweni, zombini iBhayibhile kunye necawa inokucebisa ukuhambela amangcwaba kwiintsuku ezithile, kodwa akukho zichasiselo ezichanekileyo, ngakumbi ukuba kutheni ungeke uhambe emangcwabeni ngoLwesithathu. Ababingeleli bathi akukho mntu unokuthintela ukutyelela ingcwaba lomthandayo, ngakumbi ukuba kukho umnqweno oqinileyo. Abantu abaninzi beza emangcwabeni baze bathethe nomntu oshonile kunceda ukudibanisa nokulahlekelwa, ziqonde iingcamango zakho uze uhlale phantsi. Ukufingqa, umntu unokuthi ukuba umntu ngokwakhe ufanele ahambe okanye angahambi emangcwabeni ngoLwesithathu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubandlululo olukhoyo.
Ngoku makhe sithethe malunga nendlela yokuhambela ngokufanelekileyo iibonda zeentsapho kunye nabahlobo abadlulileyo. Icawa, uthetha ngomntu oshonile, ukhetha ukusebenzisa igama elithi "abafileyo", oko kuthetha ukuba ixesha lifika xa uThixo uya kuvuselela amakholwa kwaye ingcwaba iya kuba yindawo apho umntu uya kuvuka khona. Kwakuvela apha ukuba isithethe kunye nomthetho waqala ukunyamekela indawo yokungcwaba kwaye uyihlobise ngeentyantyambo eziphilayo kunye nezobugcisa. Ukutyelela kwingcwaba lomthandayo, kucetyiswa ukuba ukhanyise ikhandlela aze enze i-lithium, oko kukuthi, ukuthula buthule ixesha elifutshane ne-gravestone, kwaye kufuneka lenziwe ngentsingiselo. Kukholelwa ukuba ngelo xesha, iingcinga ezilungileyo ziya kubaluleka kunamaphi amagama. Omnye unokufunda umthandazo okanye u-akathist malunga nokuphumula,