Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuvuswa, umntu ukhumbula ngokucacileyo zonke iinkcukacha zephupha kwaye unokuyichaza ngokulula. Okubaluleke kakhulu ekuchazeni amaphupha kukuxhamla phakathi kolwazi olufunyenweyo kunye neemeko ezenzeka ngobomi bokwenene.
Kutheni ikati ekhulelweyo iphupha?
Ngokuqhelekileyo iphupha elinjalo lingaqwalaselwa njengesicatshulwa sokuba iintshaba sele sele ziza nezicwangciso ezininzi zokukulimaza. Elinye iphupha likwazi ukuqikelela ukuvela kweengxabano kunye neengxaki ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba isilwanyana sasingcolile - oku kuwuphawu lokuba esinye sezihlobo zakho sigula. Kwintombazana encinci, iphupha apho ikati elithweleyo libonakalisa uphawu oluhle olulingela ubomi obulungileyo bomntu. Mhlawumbi uya kunikwa isandla kunye nentliziyo. Ukuva ukuthungwa kwekati ekhulelweyo kuthetha ukuba umntu uya kufuna ukukubandakanya kwizinto ezinokubangela into embi.
Ukuba ufuna ukubamba ikati ekhulelwe - le ngumbonakalo wokudibana kunye nomntu onomdla onomdla kuphela kwimbono yakhe. Iphupha lekati ekhulelwe, eyaqala ukuzala, ngoko, ngokukhawuleza uya kunqumla ubudlelwane nomntu osondeleyo kuwe. Iikati ezininzi ezikhulelweyo ziyihlazo. Enye iphupha li nokuba ngumqondiso wobukho kwisangqa soqhagamshelwano lwabahlobo abangenabunyani abafuna ukukulimaza. Enye yeencwadi zephupha ithi iphupha malunga nesilwanyana esikhulelweyo singathathwa njenginconywa ukuze uye kwizenzo ezisebenzayo. Sekuyisikhathi sokusombulula iingxaki eziqokelelweyo ukuze uphucule ubomi bakho.
Ukuphupha ikati ekhulelwe efunayo okanye sele iyakrazula, ngoko amaphupha akho akayi kuzaliseka, kungekudala iingxaki ezinzima ziya kuvela. Elinye iphupha linokuthi lithathwa njenge-harbinger yesifo. Ikati elihlaselayo liwuphawu lokuba iintshaba zakho azilahlekelwa yithemba lokulimaza. Ukuba isilwanyana esithweleyo sasiyimhlophe kukubonisa ukuba iintshaba ziya kwenza ngasese kuwe.