Izibini ezininzi ezifuna ukuba nomntwana azikwazi ukuzalisekisa iphupha labo ixesha elide. Bafumana uphando oluninzi, baphathwa kwiikliniki ezizodwa, kodwa ukukhulelwa okufunayo akuza.
Ukuxhalaba, baqala ukufuna uncedo ngolwazi lomlingo, besetyenziselwa iinclupheko kunye neendlela zokukhulelwa. Iqhinga lokufumana ukukhulelwa ngumgaqo wamagama omlingo owenzelwe ukutshintsha iimeko zokukhulelwa, ukuphuhliswa nokuzalwa komntwana.
Ngethemba lokunceda amandla omlingo, kuyimfuneko ukulandela imithetho ethile:
- Amasiko kufuneka enze kuphela kunye neqabane lawo.
- Funda iprogram engcono kwiinyanga ezikhulayo. Kukholelwa ukuba oku kufanele kube nefuthe ekuphuculeni ngcono komntwana ekuzalweni kwesibeleko.
- Kukulungele ukusebenzisa ubuqili kunye nemithandazo yokukhulelwa. Ngaloo ndlela, esinye isenzo sikhuliswa ngumnye, ngaloo ndlela kwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa kunye nokuzalwa kwembewu ende elinde. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, umntu kufuneka a tyelele icawa aze asebenze izicelo zokuthandazela abangcwele abaxhaphaza abafazi abakhulelweyo, abafazi kunye nabantwana abancinci.
- Abo banqwenela ukufumana imithandazo ekhethekileyo ekungabikho kwengqondo kwabantwana abangenabantwana banceda ngokufanelekileyo ukunceda izibini. Bafunda kakuhle kunye neqabane ukuze banyuse amathuba okukhulelwa.
- Xa ufunda izicwangciso zokukhulelwa (ngokuqhelekileyo zenziwa ngaphambi okanye emva kokutsalwa kwecala) kufuneka ugxininise kumagama athetha, ucinga ukuba umnqweno wokuba umntwana sele ufezekile.
Izicwangciso zokukhulelwa kwangaphambili
- Eyona ndlela iphumelele njengamanje yindlela yeqhinga lokuphilisa ovela kwiSiberia, u-Natalia Stepanova, phakathi kwabo uceba lokukhulelwa kwangaphambili. Ukuze ufumane umphumo, kufuneka uqale ukufunda isicatshulwa esikhethekileyo ngosuku lwesithathu lwenyanga: "Ndiza kuba ngumncedisi. Kwimiba yokufumana amanqatha, emzimbeni ukuhlanza, ukugubungela emilenzeni, ukuze umntwana akwazi ukukhulelwa. Yile ndlela inyanga yenyanga esibhakabhakeni ikhula kwaye iza, ngoko isiqhamo senceku (igama lakho) liqala kwaye likhula. E gameni likaKristu uMsindisi. Amen . " Iqhinga kufuneka liphindwe kathathu. Xa ufunda ingqungquthela, kufuneka ubophe iqhosha kumtya okanye urbhoni. Inkqubo kufuneka iphindwe rhoqo imihla ngemihla. Ekupheleni kweentsuku ezingamashumi amane, kufumaneka ama-forty knots. Ukukhulelwa kwenzeka xa eli xesha liphela. Le nqubo yayibizwa ngokuba yiqhinga lokukhulelwa ii-nodules ezingama-40.
- Isicwangciso esiqinileyo sokukhulelwa sisithethe kunye nesibuko ngobusuku benyanga. Kuyimfuneko ukuma uhamba ze phambi kwesibuko ukwenzela ukuba le nyanga encinane ibonakalise kuyo. Ukujonga ngcamango yakho, kufuneka ucinge ukuba ukhulelwe uze uhlebezele amagama alandelayo: "Inyanga intsha-entsha, isithandwa somthandekayo, indawo endiyithandayo, ewe, ndingumtshakazi wakho kuphela. Uzalelwe namhlanje, kwaye mna, uMkhonzi kaThixo (igama lakho), uya kuba nosana. Zizenzele wena uvuyo, kuwe uzuko. Yiba njalo. Amen . " Emva kwesithethe, kufuneka uchithe ubusuku nomyeni wakho.
- Isithethe sokukhulelwa, esibanjwe ngentsasa ekuhlaleni, sinamandla kakhulu kwaye sinokuyenza kanye kuphela. Intombazana kufuneka igxininise ngaphambi kokuba inqamle kunye neenyawo zakhe zokunene zimi kwindawo yokuhlambela ngamanzi. Iqhinga limele lifundwe ngumfazi ongeyunxulumene naye ngobudlelwane begazi: "Kuya kuba nomkhonzi kaThixo (igama) kusasa kusasa, kusasa kusasa, kunye neenyawo ezikuhlambe. Ikhoboka (igama) liya kubiza iqhosha elikhanyayo, ngenxa yezinto ezilungileyo. Mnike amandla omntwana oqaqambileyo, onengqiqo. Ekhwaza ngelizwi elikhulu ngeliveki ezimashumi amane, kunye neenyanga ezilisithoba. Ngoko ukuba isifuba senkwenkwana ixhomekeke emlonyeni wakhe omncinci, onomnandi. Ukuncinciza okuncinci akuzange kuthinte, kwaye ubunzima bokuzalwa kwekhoboka (igama) lidlulile. Umyeni wakhe makamthathe umntwana, amnike igama lehlabathi. Njengoko inyawo lesigqila (igama) ngoku limi ngokuqinile, lime liqinile, ngoko igama lam liya kuhlala liqinile, liya kuba namandla. Oko kuthetha ukuthini ukuzaliseka. Kuthetha ntoni - kuya kuzaliseka. " Emva kokufunda isalathisi, intombazana imele ihlale eplaskini kunye neenyawo zombini ize ihlabe i-nightclub yayo yexesha elinesithathu ngala mazwi: "Ndiyakholwa, ndiyathemba, ndikulindele umntwana".
Iqhinga lokugcina ukukhulelwa
Ukuba ibhinqa ibhekene nengxaki yokuphuphuma kwesisu ngenxa yokulahlekelwa yintlungu engapheliyo, unokusebenzisa inceba ekhethekileyo yokugcina ukukhulelwa. Ukugcina ukukhulelwa ungenza icebo emanzini. Le yindlela elula kakhulu eyenziwa ngokukhawuleza emva kokuvuswa. Kwiglasi yamanzi acacileyo, amagama athile afundwa: "Mama wam kaThixo, unxuseli bonke oomama, phuma ezindlwini zakho zasezulwini, ukuqinisa umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), uqinise isiqhamo sesibeleko sakhe uze ulume isiqhamo sawo. Yibonge kwaye uncede. Amen . " Emva koko kuyimfuneko ukusela nganye iiyure ngelilanga emqaleni walo manzi. Kwaye kufuneka wenze i-sips ezili-12. Emva kokudlulela kokugqibela, uya kulala.
Kwakhona, ukugcina umntwana, abafazi abakhulelweyo banokufunda imithandazo ebhekiswe kuMama kaThixo.