Xa umntu ebiza igama elithi "inkosikazi", ngokuqhelekileyo, entlokweni kukho iminyano njengowesifazane owonakalisa intsapho yomnye umntu, owangena nendoda engavumelekanga ukuba abe nolwalamano olusondeleyo, njl. Kodwa inkosikazi ingaba ngumlingane ozibonakalisa ebhedeni nayo yonke inzondo , kwaye ngexesha elifanayo unako ukuva nokuqonda imeko yendoda yakhe.
Amadoda amaninzi phantsi komxholo wothando othethileyo awuthetha ngolwazi olunzulu lwabesetyhini ngesondo, kodwa uthando lwakhe, ukukwazi ukubona isimo sangaphakathi somthandi wakhe, umnqweno wokuzifumana, kunye nokukholisa umyeni wakhe. Ngoko ke, qwalasela imigaqo eyintloko yohlobo lokuba ngumthandi ofanelekileyo.
Isiqalo sokuqala
Enyanisweni, akukho mntu uye wabonisa ukuba i-strawberries enekrimu okanye i-tshokoleta yindlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuzonwabisa, kodwa omnye kufuneka akhumbule umzekelo ovela kwi-cinema apho amadoda afana nokuhlaziywa ngokuphatha i-berry phezu komzimba. Ungakwazi ukubopha amehlo akho ngekhwele lesililika. Oku kuya kukhuthaza uvuyo olungakumbi. Ukuba amajikijolo awafumaneki, iikhabhi ze-ice ziza kuba ngumgqugquzeli ongcono.
Ukulumka komlingane okhaliphile
Njengoko uyazi, amadoda awakhupheli iingxoxo kwiingxoxo ezifanelekileyo. Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, ungakuthandi ukuxoxa ngayo kunye neqabane lakho. Akunakunqweneleka ukuphendulela uphando kule meko. Imithetho yomthandi omhle ithi intombi kufuneka ifunde ukuphulaphula indoda yakhe. Imvakalelo yakhe kunye nendlela awayeyithatha ngayo ukuthintela intanda yakhe iya kuthetha okuyimfuneko.
Inkululeko yentliziyo
Izibongozo, ukububula, ukukhala - konke oku kukhulula kakhulu into yolonwabo. Abasetyhini abaninzi bathanda ukuzonwabisa, ukuvalela iimvakalelo zabo. Kodwa oku akufanele kwenziwe. Iindlela zivumela amadoda ukuba azive ekhululekile kwizenzo zesondo, ingakhankanywa ukuba inkwenkwezi iyakhuphula umxhwele wesilisa.
Musa ukulibala malunga nentanda yakho
Iimfihlelo zomthandi onokuzikhethela ukuba awuyikuphela nje ingqalelo kwiimvakalelo neminqweno yomntu wakho, kodwa ungalibali ukuzithanda. Ukwenza i-manicure okanye i-hairdress, khumbuze ukuba wenza oku, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ngokwakho, entle. Emva koko, umfazi ozixabisayo kwaye akayi kulahlekelwa ukuzingca ngamabhinqa uhlala ekhangeleka kumntu.
Ngoko, umthandi omhle ngumfazi onobubele, onothando nomthandayo owaziyo uqobo lwakhe kwaye uhlala ekhangeleka kwaye uyamangalisa emehlweni kwintanda yakhe.