Umlawuli waseBrithani oneminyaka engama-32, uNkosana uHarry, waqala ukuthetha nodliwano-ndlebe apho wayethetha ngokucacileyo malunga nendlela awayefe ngayo unina. Nangona i-Princess Diana yafa phantse kwiminyaka engama-20 edlulileyo, uHarry ngoku angakwazi ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo ngale ntlupheko kunye nokupapashwa kweThe Telegraph.
Induna yaqala "ukufihla entloko entlabathi"
Ngelo xesha kwakukho ingozi yemoto eParis, uHarry wayeneminyaka eli-12 ubudala. Yonke le nkcazelo icelwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngokunyaniseka ukuba inkosana yafumana uxinzelelo olukhulu ekulahlekeni konina kwaye yabuyela kuye, engafuni ukuvumela abantu abangaziwayo emphefumlweni wakhe. Ngendlebe nodliwano-ndlebe ne-Telegraph, inkosi inqumle ukuxelela malunga nendlela awayejamelana ngayo nentlungu:
"Xa ndafumanisa ukuba umama wayefile, andizange ndiqonde oko kwakuthethwa kum kwaye kwenzekani. Xa ingqondo ibuyele kwizinto eziqhelekileyo emva kweendaba ezimbi, ndaphila njengephupha. Andiyikhumbuli ngokwenene umngcwabo, okanye iintsuku ezazisemva kwazo. Ndandifuna ukufihla kuwo wonke umntu kwaye ndibone ngethuba le ntlekele. Ndiyakhumbula abantu abathile abazama ukuthetha nam, kodwa yintoni ekuthethwa ngayo, andiyi kuthetha ngoku. Ngesinye isikhathi, ndaqonda ukuba ukuba ndiyakucima umama wam, kuya kuba lula kum. Kwakusuka kumzuzwana ndaqala "ukufihla entloko entlabathi" xa kufika kuDiana. "
Emva koko, uHarry wakhumbula iminyaka yakhe yobutsha:
Abaninzi banditshilo ukuba intlungu yokufa komama iya kudlula kwaye ixesha liphilisa, kodwa akuzange kwenzeke kum. Xa ndiqala ukucinga ngoDiana, ndandibuhlungu kangangokuba ndandifuna ukubetha into okanye umntu. Yilo meko yengqondo echaphazela ukukhethwa kwam umsebenzi. Ndaya kukhonza ndiba ngumkhosi wempi. Emva kokuba ndiphakathi kwempi, kwaba lula kum. Ininzi ndandincedwa ukunqoba ibali elibuhlungu labadala beemfazwe malunga nokulahlekelwa ngabahlobo babo ngexesha lomkhosi kumazwe ahlukeneyo. Enyanisweni, andisakwazi ukuphilisa isilonda. "
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UHarry wamnceda uPrince William
Kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, iNkosana uHarry yanquma ukuhlala phantsi emkhosini kwaye iqhuba imisebenzi yakhe ngqo. Waqala ukuza kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo zikarhulumente njengelinye lamalungu omndeni wasebukhosini kwaye ujoyine inceba. Kwi-intanethi yakhe, isikhulu sichaza owamnceda ukuba anqobe uxinzelelo emva kokufa kuka-Diana:
"Xa ndaphenduka iminyaka engama-28, ndandinomdla ongalindelekanga noWilliam. Wayekwazi ukufumana amagama endiqala ukumphulaphula. UWilliam wandincenga ukuba ndibonane nengcali yeengqondo eyayingandinceda ukuba ndiphuluke ekufeni komama. Ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo, ukuya kudokotela kwakuyinyathelo elinzima kum, kodwa ndagqiba ekubeni ndwendwele. Ngoku andiyi kuthetha ukuba unyango luqhubeka kangakanani, kodwa kwakungekho nye intlanganiso kunye nogqirha, kodwa nangaphezulu. "
Ekupheliseni kwakhe udliwano-ndlebe, uHarry wathi la mazwi:
"Ngoku ndiyakwazi ukuthetha ngokufa kukaDiana. Kucacile ukuba entliziyweni yam yonke into icinezelekileyo, kodwa akukho ntlungu endiyenzayo malunga neminyaka emihlanu edlulileyo. Ngoku ndikulungele ukukhulula umama kwaye ndikulungele ukuqala isigaba esitsha ebomini bam. Ndifuna ngokwenene ukuba ndibe nosapho kunye nabantwana bam. "