Ubutsha luxesha lokutshintsha kunye nesigaba esitsha ebomini babo bonke abantwana. Ngeli xesha, kukho utshintsho oluninzi ekuphuculweni ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo komntu. Ukuqhubela phambili kulo, ukhetha indawo yangaphakathi kwikamelo labantwana abaselula, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela iimfuno zakhe kunye nezifiso. Kufanelekile ukuqwalasela iindlela zokukhetha amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe.
Ingaphakathi kwikamelo labantwana kwiintombazana eziselula
Omkhulu, ukuba wena nomntwana wakho nibheka ukuklanywa kwegumbi ngeso linye kwaye niyavuma. Kodwa kukho ukhetho apho, wena okanye umntwana ungakugqiba ukuba yiyiphi igumbi ayithandayo. Kule meko, kuya kuba kufanelekile ukuqwalasela ukuhluka kweesampuli kwaye ukhethe oko kuya kuba kufuphi nomntwana wakho.
Ukuhlobisa kwangaphakathi kweklasi lentombazana intsha ingenziwa ngeendlela ezifana nale ndlela: "ibhola", "ikosikazi", "igumbi lobukhosi". Kwakhona kwigumbi lokulala ungasebenzisa isitayela saseSpanish, okanye uyihobise igumbi kumbala oyisisiseko: igumbi elimhlophe, elibomvu, elibomvu. Ngokungahambelaniyo, umxholo okhethiweyo kufuneka uhambelane neli lizwe leentombi, ukuba sisondele kuye.
Ingaphakathi kwigumbi lomntwana osemtsha liya kuxhomekeka kwizinto ezithandwayo kunye nezinto ezithandwayo zomntwana wakho. Intombazana ethanda imfesholo ingadibanisa igumbi layo kwindlela yeProvence , eyaziwayo kakhulu kwaye ithandwa. Eli hlobo linika ingqiqo ye-chic, i-sophistication. Uhlala ekhangeleka kwaye ehloniphekile. Okungathandwa kancinane kwigumbi leentombazana yile mizobo: i-minimalism, i-cheby-chic, isitayela samanje. Ngamnye wabo unempawu kunye neenzuzo. Ngokomzekelo, ubuncinci bufanelekile kumntwana ongeyithandi ukudlula igumbi ngamacandelo angafunekiyo kunye nezixhobo. Eli gumbi liza kuba neyona nto yincinci yezinto, kwaye bonke baya kuba nebala elicacileyo. I-style cheby-chic inikeza igumbi inqaku lokuthandana. Yifanelekile kwiimpawu ezilungileyo, ezikhetha ubuhle. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukunganakwa kwesi siko akuvumelekanga. Kuya ku "nciphisa" igumbi. Ngoko ke, ukhetha le ntombazana intombazana, kuyimfuneko ukugxila kumlingani wakhe nokuziphatha kwayo.
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Ingaphakathi kwikamelo lomntwana kwinkwenkwe yenkwenkwe
Kakade, ukuba igumbi lekwenkcenkcesha liya kuhluka kwibala kunye nombala. Kodwa iingcebiso zokubhalisa zihlala zifana: ziqwalasele iimfuno zomntwana wakho. Ubungaphakathi bendawo yamanje yentsholongwane kufuneka ibonakalise ubuntu bakhe kunye nomlingiswa wakhe. Ngoko umntwana uya kuziva ekhululekile, uya kuvuyela ukuba kule gumbi kunye nabahlobo, phumula kwaye wenze umsebenzi wesikolo.
Iingcamango zokuhlobisa igumbi lomfana okhulayo lingaba lulandelayo: ezemidlalo, indawo, ukugijima, umculo, retro. Phakathi komklamo wemibala kukukhetha ukuzinqanda, ukulalisa amathoni. Ukuba le nkwenkwe i-shades eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, i-gray, ebushushu iyakuhambelana. Ukwenza igumbi likhululeke kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kuyimfuneko ukwahlula kwimida: ukusebenza, ukuphumla, ukugcina izinto. Ungakulibali ukuba intombazana inokwenza umdlalo wakhe, umdlalo onokubonakalisa kwindlela yokuyila. Umzekelo, kumfana oselula odlala izixhobo zomculo, unokwenza ikhonkco lomculo, unike isikhala eludongeni apho angakwazi ukuxhoma iifowuni zeimvumi ezizithandayo, iifoto eziphathekayo.
Jonga kunye nomntwana ziziphi iindlela zokuhlobisa udonga ngoncedo lwesithombe uze ukhethe enye ifanelekileyo. Enye indlela ebangalisa umdlalo ukukrazwa kweendonga usebenzisa ipalayini yombala. Kuya kuba yinto enesibindi kwaye engaqhelekanga eya kwenza ukuba igumbi lithandeke kwaye litshintshile.
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