Ukuze sifunde indlela yokuyisa i-Cancer yomntu, makhe sibuke ngeenkwenkwezi kunye neenkwenkwezi, ziya kusinceda siqonde izici zobuntu eziphambili, okuthandayo, iinjongo kunye neenjongo.
Ndingayithanda njani umdlavuza?
Abafana abazalwa phantsi kwesi sibonakaliso se-Zodiac bathanda abafazi basekhaya, kubalulekile kubo ukuba indlu iyancwina, kwaye yavakala ngamaphiko, kwaye intombazana ethandekayo yayilinda emsebenzini ngokumomotheka ebusweni bakhe. Ukuthi, ukuba ungayinqoba njani umdlavuza, kwaye ufuna ukufumana ulonwabo lwentsapho , kuyimfuneko ukuba udlulisele kuye ukuba iimpawu kunye nemibono yakhe emtshatweni uhambelana, kuphela kule meko uya kukuqwalasela njengomlingane wobomi. Nje ungazami ukugqithisa, ukukwazi ukwenza ukunyaniseka akufanele kukuguqulele intombazana echitha ubomi bakhe ekhitshini, engenalo umdla kwaye ayizibukeli. Amanomdla, kunye nabo bonke abanye abantu, njengokuba iqabane lawo lilungele kakuhle, likwazi ukuxhasa incoko kwaye kwindlu ibukeka ilinga.
Olunye uqhinga oluya kunceda bobabini ukuba bathandane nomntu okhululekileyo-Khansayo, kwaye utshatile ukuhlala umnika loo mntu ukuba unenkokeli kwimizalwane yakho. Amanqweno afaneleke kakhulu, ngoko abayi kuzinyamezela ukuba intombi yabo iyona nto ehambelana nolwalamano lwabo, inselele ilungelo labo lokwenza izigqibo. Bahlaziywa ngabancinci nabancinci bafazi, abakwazi ukuphazamisa, ukukhusela iimvakalelo zabo ngexesha lokuxabana . Ngobudlelwane nomntu onjalo, akufanele uzinze ngokwakho, kuya kuba bubulumko ukubonakalisa ukhetho lwakho ngesicelo sesicelo okanye isiphakamiso, kungekhona isigxina.
Kwaye, ke, musa ukulibala ukuba i-Cancer ayinyamezeli ubunzima, zama ukuqiniseka ukuba ulwalamano lwakho luhlala luhlala kwindawo enomdla nokuthandana. Hlela iintlanganiso, wenze izinto ezixakile, uphathise iqabane lakho kwaye uya kuphumelela.