Kodwa kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba umntwana uqala ukugqithisa emva kwexesha eliqhelekileyo lamkelekile, okanye ngokubanzi uhlala ethule iminyaka engama-2-3, ekutshintshelweni kokuthetha ngomlomo kunye nomoya othi "apho". Oomama bahlala bejamelana nale ngxaki, bengayazi ukuba benzani kule meko.
Isizathu salo mkhuba singabomzimba besifo somlomo esisemthethweni, kunye nokukhulumisana okwaneleyo nabantu abadala. Kodwa nantoni na into ebuxoki kwingcambu yenkinga, ngabazali, ngokuqinisekileyo, banokuyicombulula ngokukhawuleza. Makhe sijonge iindlela eziphambili zokufundisa umntwana ukuba akhulume ngokukhawuleza kwaye azame ukuzifunda ngokwenza.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba athethe?
Kulo msebenzi uza kuncedwa ngamaziko ahlukeneyo akhiwe ngomdlalo:
- Ukuchaneka ngokuchanekileyo kwezibhenqo eziphambili kunye nezandi eziqhawulayo (abazali okanye utitshala ubonisa umntwana umfanekiso obonakaliswe ngumbutho wodonga, amaqabunga omthi womthi, njl.);
- ukwenzela ukuphuhliswa kwezixhobo zokuxubusha zabantwana abakwisithuba se-1-2 kwiminyaka kuncedo ukufundisa ukuxelisa amazwi entaka kunye nezilwanyana;
- ukubiza amagama amathathu okanye ngaphezulu ukufundisa ukuphefumula (ungaqala ngengoma elula njenge "la-la-la");
- uphuhliso lwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi , ezinceda ukuthetha umntwana. Ingaba ngumzekelo kumdlalo wodongwe okanye ngomnwe;
- Umntwana oneminyaka engama-2-3 unokuxelela ibali elithakazelisayo okanye esaziqhelana naye ngefestile, ukuphazamisa indawo kwindawo enomdla kwaye ucebise ukuba aqhubeke nokuqhubeka.
Ndingayithetha njani nomntwana ngokuchanekileyo?
Kukho iimfuno ezimbalwa ezilula, ezikuthi, njengomthetho, unceda ukuthetha umntwana ongathuliyo:
- Endaweni yokubuza "yithi," "phinda," ukwakha iingxoxo kunye nosana, wenze ikhefu apho kufuneka kube khona ukuthetha kwakhe;
- udlala imidlalo eyahlukeneyo, tshela izenzo zakho ("Ndiyithatha iibhloko kwaye ndakhe inqaba", "Ufuna kundinceda?", "Ndiphe i-cube eluhlaza kwaye ndiza kuthatha i-yellow", "Uyabona indlela ende ende inqaba!". imibuzo, nangona engabaphenduli okwamanje;
- kunika amabinzana akho imibala yomzwelo, yenza iintetho zokungqinelana kwentetho - abantwana bathanda inkulumo;
kwinkqubo yoqhagamshelwano musa ukukhawulelana noqhagamshelwano kunye kwaye udla ngokuba ngumntu onobubele kunye negama: kufuneka uhlale eva inkxaso yakho nothando; - Musa "ukuphula", ukuvakalisa onke amagama kunye nezivakalisi ngokuchanekileyo, ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo. Intsana kufuneka ive intetho enhle nefanelekileyo, ukwenzela ukwakha ngokufanelekileyo imigaqo yakhe kwixesha elizayo.
Njengoko umkhuba ubonisa, ukufundisa abantwana abancinci ukuthetha, kufuneka nje unike ixesha elincinane - ngokwaneleyo kuya kuba ngumzuzu-15 ngomzuzu. Ukuba umntwana usele minyaka engama-3-4, le ngxaki isaphila, kuyaqondakala ukuba uye kwi-therapist.