Ngamanye amaxesha amaphupha amangalisayo ayenziwe, oku akulula ukuqonda; Ngokomzekelo, kunzima ukuqonda ukuba yiyiphi ikhukhamba eluhlaza ephuphayo.
Leli phupha lichazwe njani?
Kwiincwadi zephupha, eli qhepha liphathwa ngokubanzi, nangona, njengomthetho, iguqulela kwelinye - liphupha elihle:
- kukholelwa ukuba iphupha elinjalo libonisa ukuba impilo iya kuba yinkqubo epheleleyo, kwaye ukuba ikhukhamba iphupha isigulane, ngokukhawuleza uza kubuya;
- inokubonwa njengomqondiso olungileyo, ukwazisa ngeemeko ezilungileyo eziza kwenzeka ngexesha elifutshane;
- Bakholelwa ukuba ukubona iikomkom ephupheni kukuphumelela kwoshishini elibalulekileyo eliye laqalwa okanye kwisiphelo esiphumeleleyo.
Abahlanganisi abaninzi beencwadi zephupha, bachaza ukuba ziphi iikomkoro eziluhlaza eziphuphayo ngokubhekisele kumfazi, bathi loo phupha ibonakalisa ukunganeliseki ngokwesondo kunye nesifiso esifihlakeleyo sokuthandana nomntu.
Kukho ezinye iinguqulelo: ababhali beencwadi eziphuphayo zikholelwa ukuba iikomkom zibonwe ephupheni, zifanekisela iindawo ezibuhlungu kunye neengxaki ezihambelana nokufumana iindwendwe eziza kubonakala kungekudala emnyango. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba baxwayisa ngezinto ezingenanto zokuxazulula iingxaki.
Iyintoni ikhukhamba entsha eluhlaza kunye nentombazana?
Iinguqulelo ezininzi zamaphupha ziyavuma ukuba amaphupha afana nephupha, ngamanye amaxesha, ukwanda kwenani labamangalisi, kwabanye - owaziwayo okanye umtshato ophumelelayo.
Abameli bendawo yokulala esicincileyo bathembisa inhlanhla kwishishini, impilo enempilo, ukuzaliswa ngempumelelo kweemeko.
Ukuba uvuna ukhukhamba ...
Kwenzeka ukuba akukho kuphela ukhukhamba, njengaleyo, ephuphayo, kodwa ukuvuna isivuno sabo. Kule meko, phawula amaninzi amanqaku achaphazela ukutolika, aphi amaphupha okuqokelela ukhukhamba aluhlaza. Kubalulekile ukuba yeyiphi ikhukhamba ephuphayo:
- abanye bakholelwa ukuba ukuqokelela amatsha, kodwa amancinci amancinci - kwiinkathazo ezincinci, kodwa ezimbi;
- Abantu abakwixesha lokuvunwa kwamakhukhamba amatsha bathembisa ukuguga kwexesha elide kunye noxolo kunye nempilo enhle;
- ukhukhamba eziqhakazileyo zemilo engavumelekanga izithembiso eziza kutshatyalaliswa kwaye zivelise uvuyo.
Abaninzi banomdla kwiikomkomoro ezintsha eziphuphayo, ukuba ziya kuqokelelwa ngumfazi. Ukuqokelela ukhukhamba olutsha ephupheni yi-harbinger yeziganeko ezilungileyo, kodwa kuphela ukuba imibhede engadini ayenziwe yintlabathi. Kule meko, yonke into ekhoyo ebomini okwangoku, idinga isenzo sokuyiqinisa nokuyigcina. Kwaye ukuba ukuqokelela kwamakhukhamba ayenzeki kwenkcubeko yemveli, ke kukufanele ukujongwa ngokukhawuleza kwiziganeko eziseduze ezingenza inkcazo ebhalwe ebomini obonwabileyo ngumfazi.