I-Psychology ikholelwa ukuba ukunxibelelana sisisiseko esisisiseko somntu. Akukho namnye kuthi akayi kukwazi ukuhlala ngokuqhelekileyo kuluntu ngaphandle kokuba ugcina ubudlelwane abathile nabanye abantu. Makhe sibone ukuba zeziphi iinjongo zonxibelelwano , ukuba zingatshintsha njani.
Iinjongo eziphambili zonxibelelwano
Okwangoku, iingcali zihlula oku kulandelayo:
- Ukuhlangabezana nesidingo soqhagamshelwano.
- Uqhagamshelwano loshishino, olujoliswe ekuhleleni nasekulungiseni imisebenzi.
- Unxibelelwano lomntu, olubonisa ukuba iimfuno kunye neemfuno ezichaphazela ubuntu bomntu ziya kuxutyushwa.
Ngaloo ndlela, kunokuthiwa ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba bonke abantu banokuzanelisa iimfuno zangaphakathi zomntu ngamnye, okanye bajoliswe ekudaleni impahla ethile okanye iimeko, ukuba bafumane.
Iinjongo nemisebenzi yoqhagamshelwano lobuqu
Xa abantu ababini beqala ingxoxo, injongo yayo kukunelisa iimfuno zangaphakathi, ngoko sinokuthi abantu aba ngabahlobo okanye ngabahlobo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba unxibelelwano lwalolu hlobo luya kugqitywa ngokukhawuleza xa kutshabalalisa izinto eziqhelekileyo. Kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba ubudlelwane obusoloko buya ku "cha" ukuba omnye wabahlobo utshintsha uluhlu lweminqweno okanye iingxaki zangaphakathi.
Injongo yoqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino
Njengoko sele kukhankanywe ngasentla, into ephambili umntu angayifumana kulo mzekelo kukuba kudalwa imimiselo yokufumana izinto eziphathekayo. Ukuthetha ngokuthintana kwezoshishino, kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba inemithetho yayo, engafanele iphulwe.
Okokuqala, amaqabane angakwazi ukulingana, kwaye "izikhundla" kunye nezikhundla "eziphantsi" zihlala zikhundla. Ngokusekelwe kuloluhlu lolawulo, kwaye kufuneka sakhe incoko.
Okwesibini, olu dlelwane luya kupheliswa ngokukhawuleza ukuba ubuncinci omnye wabathathi-nxaxheba uyeka ukufumana inzuzo yezinto ezibonakalayo kwinkqubo. Hlukanisa lolu hlobo lwanxibelelwano lunokuthi "ngu-boss", kwaye lowo uthatha indawo "engaphantsi". Ngoko ke, kufuneka kuhlale kukhunjulwa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba kuthathe ixesha lobudlelwane, kuyimfuneko kuphela ukulandelela ukuba omnye wabathathi-nxaxheba uyeke ukuzuza.