Abantu banenkolelo ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo, bayamkela kunye neenkolelo, ezinokuthi zichaze malunga naziphi na iziganeko ezizayo. Abantu sele bebekele ingqalelo kwizilwanyana, kwendalo kunye nento eyenzekayo ejikeleze kubo, eyayizimisele ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kusasa elizayo.
Kamva abantu baqala ukunyamekela imizimba yabo: impumlo yayibuhlungu, ubuso kunye nezihlathi zitshisa, isithende okanye isandla sasekhohlo sasidibanisekile, ulwimi lwalunywa kwaye ngokuhamba kwesikhathi le miba yenziwe ibe yimpawu eyaqhubekayo kubantu kwaye abaninzi bebaphulaphule.
Umqondiso wokuluma ulwimi lwakho ngelixa udla
Kwenzeka ukuba ngexesha lokutya kakhulu umntu uyaluma ulwimi lwakhe. Ewe, kuyabuhlungu kakhulu kwaye kuyinto engathandekiyo, kodwa oku kungumqondiso olungileyo, othi umntu makamele ayeke ukuxhasa incoko, ukuze ahambe ngaphaya kwemida kwaye angenzi umonakalo ngendlela yokungaxabani.
Ukuba umntu uyalila isicaciso seelwimi, kwimeko yoko, ukuba uyakholelwa inqaku, kufuneka uqonde ukuba umntu uthe waxoka okanye uya kuxoka, ngoko kufuneka uqikelele kakhulu.
Ezinye iimpawu
Olunye uhlobo oluthile lokuchazwa luthetha ukuba ulwimi olumkileyo luphawu oluthetha ukuba inkulumo engathandekiyo (inhlebo) iphathelele umntu oye waluma ulwimi lwakhe. Ngenxa yoko sinokugqiba ukuba lo mntu unenzondelelo zeentshaba.
Kwenzeka ukuba i-pimple encane iphuma ngaphandle kolwimi, eyona nto ibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iyancipha. Kwakhona luhlobo lwesibonakaliso oluthi umntu akakwazi ukugcina umlomo wakhe uvaliwe, kunye nokuthetha.
Ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ulwimi,
Kancinci malunga nelolu hlobo nolwimi
Bambalwa, ngubani owaziyo ukuba umlo wolwimi lunokumisela uhlobo lomntu. Kodwa ngokwenene! Nangona ulwimi lukhulu kakhulu, loo mntu unomusa kakhulu kwaye ukulungele ukuguqula umphefumlo phantse wonke umntu.
Ulwimi olumncinci, olude, olubhekiselele ekupheleni, luza kukuxelela ukuba umnini walo akayena mntu omhle, ngoko kufuneka uqikelele ekuchasaneni naye. Abantu abanjalo bakhetha ukuhleka.