Akukho ukuchazwa ngokucacileyo kwamaphupha malunga neentyantyambo zangaphakathi, kunye nokucokonyiswa kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha, umzekelo, oko babonakala ngathi, yintoni oyenze ngayo. Ngombulelo unokufunda malunga neengozi kunye neengxaki, kwakunye neemeko ezivuyisayo zeli xesha kunye nekamva.
Kutheni uphupha ngeentyatyambo zangaphakathi?
Ngokuqhelekileyo eli phupha libonisa ubumnandi noxolo phakathi kobomi. Kusengumqondiso wokuba unqwenela ukwabelana ngobomi bomntu nomntu. Ukubona kwiphupha, inani elikhulu leentyatyambo zangaphakathi, ngoko, ngokwenene kukho umntu osondeleyo kuni oziva evakalelwa ngayo, kodwa uyayika ukuyivuma. Ukuba izityalo zibukeka ziphosiwe-oku kubonisa ukuba kukho iingxaki kwiinkalo kunye nomntu othandekayo. Yiya ephupheni njengegumbi lesipho kwiintombazana kuthetha ukuba kukho abalandeli abaninzi ubomi boqobo.
Ukuba kukho intyatyambo ephupheni, engakhange ikhule ixesha elide kwaye ingaqhiphuki, yinto engumonakalo wesiganeko esibuhlungu. Kwincwadi ethile yokuphupha ibali elinjalo libhekwa njengesigqibo esilungileyo, esibonisa ukhetho olufanelekileyo kwindlela ebomini. Ukuphupha iintyatyambo zendlu ephukile ephupheni, kuthetha, ngokwenene awukwazi into ebalulekileyo, yiyiphi intshaba kunye nabadlali abasebenzisayo. Umbono ebusuku, apho indlu yonke izaliswe ngeentyantyambo ezimnandi kwiibhotile, kubonisa ubukho bemfihlelo ebomini. Ukulala, apho kwakudingeka ukuvelisa indawo yeentyantyambo zeentyantyambo, kuqikelele utshintsho kwindawo yomntu kunye nomsebenzi. Ukuba isityalo sitshintshile kwaye sagxotha - le yi-harbinger yesinye isifo. Ukuthulula iintyatyambo zangaphakathi ephupheni kukubonakalisa ukuba umntu osondeleyo ufuna uncedo kunye nenkxaso. Isiqhamo sentyantyambo sivutha ngamandla, kuthetha ukuba ebomini kuya kuba nomntu oza kutshabalalisa ukulungiselela ilungiselelo eliya kubangela ukuba unomntu ophazamisayo. Ukulala, okwakubonakala ngeentyantyambo zangaphakathi kwimibhobho yombala ongaqhelekanga, kubonisa ukuba unokufumana iimvakalelo ezintsha.