Sakhetha abadumileyo, abajwayele ukwenza ngaphandle kohlobo okanye intombi.
Kungekudala, abantu abaninzi baye bakhetha ukuhlala yedwa njengendlela yokuphila. Kwakukho neli gama elithi "singletonstvo", esithetha ngesiNgesi lithetha "umntu ongatshatanga". Abantu abanjalo baziziva bekhululekile kwiinkampani zabo, ukuphepha okanye ukunciphisa uxhulumaniso kunye nezihlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo. Abanomncinci okanye abangenamhlobo.
Yaye ukuba uyaziphathela kwiingcingo, musa ukucaphukisa, kuba awuyedwa. Abadumileyo banokukwazi ukujoyina ngempumelelo. Ngelishwa, ngenxa yokuzihlalisa kwabo, abaninzi kubo banquma ukuthatha indlela yabo yobomi kuluntu. Ukongezelela, izizathu ezingenabo abahlobo abafani ngazo.
1. UNawomi Campbell
Ngokuqhelekileyo kubizwa ngokuba ngumntu oyinkwenkwezi okanye umnyama. UNahomi unomdla ongenalo-mkhulu kwaye uzimeleyo ukuba akafuni abahlobo. Ngomlingiswa wakhe, oku kunzima kakhulu. Ukunxibelelana nabantu, ukhetha kuphela abo abaza kubakho ubuncinane. Amaqela uNahomi alungiselela ahlala ehlawulwa, kwaye ahlawule imali eninzi. Yintoni esinokuyithetha ngayo ngomntu ongenakubekezelelana kunye nomoya ogqithiseleyo!
Imvakalelo yesimodeli isenokutshintsha amaxesha amaninzi ngosuku. Elinye lamabali aphezulu kakhulu ayenzeka noNaomi Campbell eWondon yaseHeathrow. Ngenxa yokulahlekelwa ngumthwalo wakhe, wafika ebusweni obungenakucatshulwa waza waphoxiswa kwamapolisa, awazama ukumnciphisa. Ukuphahlazeka kwamanzi kubiza i-Black Panther iiyure ezingama-200 zomsebenzi karhulumente kunye nentlawulo ye-$ 5,330. Kungekudala, imodeli iyancipha kwaye ikhetha ukuchitha ixesha yodwa.
2. iMadonna
Kuluhlu lwabantu abadumileyo abanomdaka obunzima, ungabhalisa ngokuzenzekelayo iMadonna. Iindaba zokuba lo mculi akanalo nabangane abayi kumangalisa mntu. Nangona ethanda ukutyelela amaqela anomsindo kunye nemibutho, kodwa akafaneki avumele abanye ebomini bakhe. Kwaye ngubani ofuna ukwabelana ngeemfihlo zabo kunye no-mkakazikazi othusayo. UMadonna uvelisa abantwana abane kwaye ukhetha ukuthetha nabo.
3. UGwyneth Paltrow
Ngo-2013, i-American edition ye-Star ibizwa ngokuba ngumdlali we-Oscar-onqobayo onguMdumo ohlonipheke kakhulu emhlabeni. Abalingani bakhe kwi-setting bahlala bekhononda ngokuphathelele ubunzima obunzima beenkwenkwezi kunye nezikhalazo zakhe eziqhubekayo ukuba wayenalo ixesha elaneleyo lokudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nokukhuliswa kwabantwana. Umyeni wakhe, u-Chris Martin, u-rock Martin, wamlahla, kwaye akafuni ukuba nabahlobo.
4. Beyonce
Iingcamango malunga nalo mculi othusayo zihluka kakhulu. Abanye bathi bafana noko kubonakala kwinqanaba kunye nakwazocatshulwa: ezingakhange zihlolwe kwaye zitshatshele. Abanye, kuquka nonina, bakholelwa ukuba usebenza kakhulu kwaye uchitha ininzi yengeniso yakhe kwintando. Kodwa, nangona konke oku, uBeyonce akanabantu abaninzi abasondeleyo. Umculi wavuma ukuba akanalo ixesha lokuhlala nabahlobo bakhe.
U-Angelina Jolie
Umdlali weqonga elidumileyo uye wavuma ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba intombi yakhe kuphela yayingunina. U-Angelina akazange akwazi ukubuyela emva kokufa kwakhe. Nangona umtshato wakhe kuBrad Pitt kwaye ukuzalwa kwabantwana akunakukuzisa uxolo nonwabo ebomini bakhe. Ukongezelela, lo mtshato, kude kube kutshanje, wawubonakala unamandla kakhulu, wabuhlungu ngenxa yezinto ezimbini ezidlulileyo. Kwaye imithombo ethile ithi uBrad wavuma ukuba u-Angelina waphendulela ubomi babo kwintsapho ngokuya kwisihogo. Umdlali we-actress wayezinikezele ngokupheleleyo emsebenzini waze waqala ukuqondisa. Ziziphi iintlanganiso kunye nabahlobo?
6. Megan Fox
Mhlawumbi isizathu sokuba uMegan Fox abenabo abahlobo akusiyo inzima. Kodwa okokuqala kwisethi ye-movie "Abaguquleli" wonke umntu wayecinga ngaloo ndlela. Akazange axoxe kunye nabo basebenzisana nabo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo aziphathe kakuhle. Kodwa ke kwavela ukuba isizathu siyahluke. U-Megan wavuma ukuba uyangena, kwaye kunzima kuye ukuthetha nabantu. Mhlawumbi yingako umhlobo wakhe kuphela, umdlali wecala ukholelwa umyeni wakhe - umlingisi uBrian Austin Green.
7. UBrigitte Bardot
Lo mdlali obalaseleyo, oneminyaka engama-80 ubudala, sele edidekile kwiintlobo zonke zobudlelwane boluntu kwaye uhlala wedwa kwindlu yasezantsi eFransi eneenja eziliqela ezilikhulu ezithatha kwisitalato. UBrigitte Bardot unqwenela ukuthetha kuphela ngokubhaliweyo, kuphela kunye neentloko zorhulumente kunye kuphela kwizihloko ezinzulu. Umxholo oyintloko kuye uhlala ukhuselo lwezilwanyana. Umdlali we-actress akanayo abahlobo, kwaye akukho phantse. Uchitha lonke ixesha lakhe ukuthetha nezilwanyana.
8. URichard Gere
Umdlali we-Hollywood owaziwayo uRichard Gere wenqaba ukuthetha kunye nehlabathi langaphandle kwiminyaka ye-2000, xa wayenomdla omkhulu eBuddhism, eTibet kunye nokukhangela intsingiselo yobomi. Ngenxa yoko waqhawula uCaley Lowell, owayehlala naye iminyaka eyisixhenxe, waza wazinikela ngokupheleleyo ekuhambeni nasekuzileni. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha uyahlukana nokucamngca aze athethe nabathengisi, kodwa kwakhona abuyele kuye. Uqhagamshelana kuphela nendodana yakhe kunye nomcebisi ngokomoya. Akacwangcanga nantoni na.
9. Miley Cyrus
Njengoko kuyaziwa, abaninzi abadumileyo balondoloza ubudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwabo. Bonke baya kwiindibano ezahlukahlukeneyo kunye namaqela eenkwenkwezi. Umculi nomdlali we-actress u-Miley Cyrus unombono ohluke ngokupheleleyo kulo mba. Utsho ngokucacileyo ukuba akanalo abahlobo phakathi koogqirha. Xa kukho umona, umnqweno wokuhlala uphumelela nayiphi na indleko - akukho buhlobo. UMiley ukhetha ukunxibelelana nabantu bokwenene abanomdla obulula nolula. Umculi uyavuma ukuba ulwalamano olunjalo luyamkhuthaza.
10. Manny Pacquiao
Ubulumko bemizi ithi: "Musa ukuthetha oko uya kuzisola kusasa." Akuyi kubuhlungu ukukhumbula umxhasi weFilippines uManny Pacquiao, owathi ngenye ibinzana ephosakeleyo yalahlekelwa ngabahlobo bakhe kunye nabalingani bezoshishino ngexesha elilodwa. I-Filipino eyaziwayo yavakalisa ilizwi elikhulu ngokugxeka umtshato wesini.
Emva kwalolu daba, umgcini-bhokisi wazama ukuxolisa kubo ukuze abonakalise indlela abasabela ngayo abamele abancinci bezesondo, besithi akanalo nxamnye neentlobano zesini, kodwa akayikuxhasa imitshato yodwa yesini. Nangona kunjalo, eli binzana lalisusa isivumelwano sakhe kunye no-Nike, kunye nomhlobo wakhe omdala kunye nomgqugquzeli uBob Arum, owacela uxolo kwi-gay yoluntu yaseUnited States, wathetha ngokumelene naye.
11. UMateyu Perry
I-Paradox, kodwa omnye wabadlali abakhulu boluhlu oluthi "Abahlobo" uMatthew Perry, phantse akukho bahlobo abashiye. Kwiminyaka emininzi umdlali wenziwa ngokutsha ngotywala kunye neziyobisi. Ngo-1997, uPerry wafika kuqala kwisikhungo sokuvuselela i-"Vicodin", apho waphathwe khona ukunyanga izidakamizwa iintsuku ezingama-28, kodwa ngo-2001 waqala ukusetyenziswa kakubi nje ngeziyobisi kodwa kunye notywala. UMatthew uyavuma ukuba wayelala ezimbini iipodka ngosuku kwaye wathatha inani elikhulu lamacwecwe.
Umdlali wecala wenqaba ukuthatha inxaxheba kwisithuba esikhethekileyo seehora ezimbini esithi "Abahlobo", ngokubhekiselele kwingqesho, kodwa abafotozi bakwazi ukuthabatha uMateyu, behamba ezitratweni zaseLondon baze bathethe naye. Ngaphandle, umdlali watshintsha kakhulu, kwaye kungengcono. Luhlobo luni lokudubula, kunye nabahlobo. Kuyadabukisa, kuba wonke umntu wayeyithande loo Chandler othakazelisayo kunye nobulumko kwiichungechunge ezithandwayo zeTV.
12. Tom Cruise
Umculi weHollywood owaziwayo u-Tom Cruise usandul 'uneminyaka engama-54 ubudala. Kwaye uthetha ngokunyanisekileyo, wabambelela kwihlelo leScientology kwiindlebe. Imitshato emibini yangaphambili yomdlali weqhekeza ngenxa yeScientologists. Kodwa ukuba uNicole Kidman wayisoloko ebaphathe kakubi kwaye akazange akhononde, ngoko uKatts Holmes wade waya kwicawa. Kwaye xa athe wanquma ukushiya ihlelo, wanikwa isimo sexuki, esicatshulwa njengesono esona sikhulu, kwaye uTom wayengenakucetyiswa ukuba agcine ubudlelwane naye.
Kwaye kwafika ukuba intombi kaSuri umdlali wegama wayeyeka ukuthetha, kuba intombazana enqaba ukuya esikolweni esikhethekileyo seScientologists. Ngoku i-Cruise ayilondolozeli ubuhlobo kunye nentombi yakhe, okanye nangomama omdala oneminyaka engama-79 ubudala, uMary Lee Mappleter, okholelwa ukuba, "unetyala" phambi kwakhe, ekhulile kwihlelo. Ababonela ngamehlo bathi uMary ugule kakhulu kwaye uhamba ngevili lesitulo. Kwaye yintoni na unyana? Ubomi bakhe abusekho ngokwakhe, okanye ukuvalela okanye abahlobo bangaphambili. Kwanokuba kuba ngenye indlela. Vu melani.