Ngaba unqume ukuqala indlu yomvundla uze uthenge konke okufunekayo kwilwanyana? Kodwa kusekho "i-snags" ekusebenzelaneni nayo - umvundla ovela kuwe ubalekela unganikezelwa ezandleni? Sizakuzama ukukunceda ukuba unqobe le nqobo encinci.
Ungayifaka njani umvundla wendandatho ezandleni zakho?
Emva kokubuyisela ekhaya ilungu elitsha lentsapho, mnike ithuba lokujonga ngaphaya kwaye uhlolisise indawo yokuhlala entsha. Emva koko, kwaye uqhubekele ekhaya lakhe. Umzuzu wezemfundo awuthandi ukukhawuleza. Ukuba ukhawuleza, isiphumo asiyi kufezwa.
Iintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala, ungamvumeli umhlobo wakho ngaphandle kwendlu. Kodwa ngelo xesha, sivame ukuyivula kwaye sinike zona. Yilungiselela indawo yokuhlala kunye ne-labyrinths emva kokugqithisa umhlobo wakho omdala kwindlu kunye nawe.
Ungathabatha njani umvundla ezandleni zakho?
Awukwazi ukutsala umvundla ngaphandle kwendlu yakhe, kwaye ngaphezu koko, ugcine izandla zakhe ngokumelene nentando yakhe, kuba isilwanyana siya kugxininiswa, kwaye inkqubo yokuhlaziywa kwekhaya kunye nokulungelelanisa kuya kuhlala ixesha elide. Kufuneka ubonise umonde ophezulu, kuphela ke ungenza abahlobo naye.
Yiya ekhayeni ngokukhawuleza. Ngexesha elifanayo, kufuneka ukhulume ngokuzithoba nangenene ngesilwanyana sakho. Ngaphandle kokwenza ukunyakaza okubukhali, makachukumise isandla sakhe, ngoko uya kuhlolisisa ukuvumba kwakho, okungekuze kudibaniswe nengozi yomdlavuza. Emva koko unike uhlobo oluthile lokutya.
Umzuzu omhle ufikile ukuthabatha umhlobo osemdala ezandleni okanye nje ukubetha, xa ungaphandle kwendawo efihliweyo. Ukuba umvundla unobunzima kunye nezivumelwano, kufuneka kushiywe yedwa, kwaye uzame ukwenza kamva.
Emva kokuba ubambe umvundla kwi-hooliganism, akufanele umbethe okanye umemele. Ikuxosha nje, kodwa ayifundisi isifundo. Udinga ukuthatha umxhaphazi ngentloko uze uyicindezele phantsi xa uphinda "amaxesha amaninzi" ngokuphindaphindiweyo uze uyisuse kwindawo yongxamiseko.
Ngona onogqabha abayithandiyo xa bechaphazela impumlo. Ngeendlela ezinjalo, banokukuluma. Kwaye kubuhlungu kakhulu kwaye kwada kwinqanaba legazi.