Kwaye udumo luxinekile ...
Ngokuvisisanayo, kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ukuxinezeleka kwangemva kokubeleka okunxulumene nezifo "ezidityanisiweyo", kwaye ukuguquguquka kwemizwelo esandula kumama kubhalelwe ukusilela kwe-hormonal okwesikhashana okanye ukukhathala okuqhelekileyo. Kwaye, kubonakala ngathi, imeko yatshintsha kakhulu emva kokuba abafazi abadumileyo beeplanethi babhengeze ngokucacileyo imeko yabo yengqondo emva kokuzalwa kwabantwana!
"Ndandilungele ukuzibulala ngokuzondla kwinqaba," "Ndaziva ngathi ndilahlekile," "Ndandifuna ukugwinya iipilisi ukwenzela ukuba ndingayiva ukukhala okuqhubekayo kwabantwana" - kwaye oku kungumlambo olwandle ukusuka kwinto esaziwayo amaqhawe, oya kubonakala ngathi, ukuba unandipha umama ...
1. Brooke Shields
Akunakwenzeka ukukholelwa, kodwa emva kokuphuphuma kwesisu, iimvavanyo ezisixhenxe ze-IVF kunye nokuzalwa okude kulindeleke kwintombi kaRowan ngo-2003, yonke into efunyanwa yinkwenkwezi ye "Blue Lagoon" yayiyinqweno yasendle ... ukufa!
Ewe, umdlali wesimo kunye nomzekelo onokuthi unokuthathwa njengenguvulindlela kwimbali kunye nokuqaphela ukuxinezeleka kwangemva kokuphuma kwesifo esibi. Wonke amava am, uBraoke Shields aqokelele kwaye atyhicilelwe encwadini ethi "Xa iqala ukuvula: uhambo lwam ngokudandatheka kwengemva."
"Ekugqibeleni ndandinomntwana onempilo kwaye omhle," u-actress uyakhumbula, "kodwa andizange ndimbone, bambambe izandla, ngimbethe iingoma, aze amomotheka! Ngaphambili, xa ndabona umntwana kumntu, ndandifuna ukumkhathaza. Kodwa xa uRowan wam eqala ukungenangqondo, ndandifuna ukugwinya amacwecwe ukuze ndingalivali ukukhala okuqhubekayo ... "
Umlambo uyavuma ukuba wayethusa ngeemvakalelo zangaphakathi:
"Kucatshangelwa ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana kuyona xesha elivuyayo kwaye umfazi kufuneka ujabule ngokungafi. Yaye ayizange isebenze kum, kwaye akukho mntu wandixelele ukuba ngenxa yokugula okufanele ukuphathwa. Kwabo bajikelezile, ndandingumfazi "ongalunganga" okanye unina omubi ... "
2. Courteney Cox
Ngokuphathelele umnqweno wokunciphisa ubomi bakhe emva kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala - intombi kaKoko ikhulelwe kwaye inkwenkwezi yee-series "Friends" Courtney Cox:
"Yonke into yayilungile de de losana luneenyanga ezintandathu ubudala. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndaqala ukuphosa! Intliziyo yam yaphuma esifuba sam, ndingalala ebusuku, kwaye ndandingenasiphelo emini. Ukuba kwakungekho kwonyango kwikliniki kunye nenkxaso yezizalwane, ndandingumanyathelo ngaphambi kokuba ndihambe ngaphandle kwehlwele ... "
3. Drew Barrymore
Kodwa umlingisi uDrew Barrymore kwaye wayengayazi ngokuba khona kwesi sigulo, de kube kuzalwa intombi yakhe yesibini:
"Xa u-Olive efika ehlabathini kwaye wonke umntu wayethetha ngokuxinezeleka kwangemva kokubeleka, andizange ndiyiqonde ngokwenene into eyayitshoyo, kodwa ndade ndazala uFrankie. Ukususela kuloo mzuzu ixesha lam eliqala ngalo ubomi, elibizwa ngokuthi "ulahlekile ngokupheleleyo"
4. Chrissy Tagen
Ukuba ngumama nje kunyaka odlulileyo, igosa elinobuchule lixelele kunye ne-supermodel uChrissie Teigen, owayeziva engonwabanga ukuba wayengenakuphuma, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uphume ebhedeni:
"Andizange ndicinge ukuba oku kwenzeka kum - ndinobomi obumnandi kwaye ndandinceda uncedo: indoda yam, umama, umongikazi. Kodwa ukudandatheka akukhethi ukuba ngubani ozayo. Andikwazi ukuyilawula, kwaye kwafuneka ndifune uncedo lwezokwelapha. Andiyazi ukuba abantu bajamelana njani nale nto. Andizange ndihloniphe oomama ngaphambili, kwaye ngokukodwa oomama abanengxaki yokudakumba kwangemva kokuphuma ... "
5. Lisa Wrynn
Kodwa i-American actress ne-TV umthumeli we-postpartum depression emva kokuzalwa kweentombi ezimbini ezihlaselwe kwifom ephezulu kakhulu:
"Ndihlala ndifuna ukuthatha ummese okanye uhlobo oluthile lwezixhobo. Ndade ndabuza umyeni wam uHarry ukuba athathe yonke into ephambili kunye nezinto zokusika phantsi endlwini aze athathe ipastile, kuba ilizwi langaphakathi laxelela wonke umntu ukuba abulale. Mna nje ngoku ndibona ukuba kunzima kangakanani ... "
6. uGwyneth Paltrow
Akudluli ngokudandatheka kwangemva kokuphuma kunye noGwyneth Paltrow. Emva kokuzalwa kwonyana wakhe ngo-2006, umdlali wexesha elide wayenamathele kwiimeko ezingabandakanyiyo:
"Ndafana nebhobhothi. Akukho mvakalelo nayiphi na imizimba yesisu. Ikoyikeka! Kwaye ngoku, xa ndijonga kwiifoto zendodana yam ezinyangeni ezi-3, ndiyaqonda ukuba eli xesha liye laphuma ebomini bam ... "
7. UCéline Dion
Ekuzalweni kwexesha elide elilindelekileyo elizalwe kudala kuleso cwangciso uCeline Dion kunye nomyeni wakhe, ngoku ngokugqithiseleyo uRene Angelil, wabhala onke amaphephandaba - umculi ixesha elide wayengenakukwazi ukukhulelwa kwaye wasinda ezininzi iinzame ezingapheliyo ze-IVF. Kwaye xa uRenee-Charles ebonakala, esikhundleni sokuzonwabisa olungenammangaliso umtsha owayesandul 'umama waqala ukukhala ngokukrakra:
"Ndiya kulila kungekho sizathu. Ndaqala kwaye andinakuyeka. Ndandilahlekelwa yintliziyo yam, kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo, ndakhangela ngxakekile kwaye ndingaphili ... "
8. Hayden Panettiere
Enye yezona zinto zityhila kakhulu ukulwa noxinzelelo lwangemva kokuzalwa kwaba ibali likaHayden Panettiere. Kuyaziwa ukuba emva kokuzalwa kwentombi kaKai-Evdokia ngo-2014, umdlali wezobugcisa wayedinga ukuya esikhungweni sokuvuselela:
"Ndiye ndafumana lonke uluvo lwezinto ezimbi kunye nezixhalabisayo ngeli xesha. Andizange ndifune ukulimaza umntwana wam, kodwa andinakukwazi ukulawula imeko yam yengqondo. Umva wecala undikhathaza lonke ixesha. Kwaye ingxaki kukuba abaninzi abafazi, abafumana into efanayo, abakwazi ukuyivuma! "
9. Kate Middleton
Ngaba ucinga ukuba emva kokuba ngumama, ama-duchesses kufuneka agcine kuphela kwicala indlela abanyamekela ngayo umntwana kwaye abakhokele ubomi, kwaye banandipha kuphela "iingenelo" zeemeko zabo? Kodwa akukho ... Kuya kuba emva kokuzalwa kweNkulumkhulu uGeorge, iDuchess yeCambridge akafuni ukuwela umnqamlezo wendlu yakhe!
"Ndandiziva ndedwa kwaye ndazimela. Kwaye ukubonisa ukuba kuya kuba kubi kangakanani, kodwa kulungile kangakanani, akukho mntu ... Ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba inkxaso yeentsapho kunye neengqondo zeengqondo zibaluleke kakhulu. Abancedisi abancedisayo-ngakumbi ukuba uya kuhlangabezana nobunzima! "
USarah Michelle Gellar
Namhlanje, umculi we-cinematic fighter otshatileyo noFreddie Prince Jr. uvelisa abantwana ababini - intombi kaCharlotte kunye nonyana kaRocca, kwaye uyonwabela ulonwabo lwentsapho, kodwa, njenjalo ... Umdlali we-actress uyavuma ukuba yonke into ayifuni nje kuphela emva kokuncediswa kweengcali, kwaye kwiphepha lakhe kwi-Instagram unikela oonxibelelwano kwiziko, apho baya kuba nako ukuxhasa bonke oomama abaselula:
"Ukuba nabantwana kuyamangalisa. Ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha, kodwa akusoloko ucinga ngendlela okulindele ngayo. Ndiyamthanda abantwana bam ngaphezu kwananto. Kodwa, njengabasetyhini abaninzi, ndafumana uxinzelelo lwangemva kokubeleka. Kwafuneka ndicele uncedo namhlanje, ndicinga ukuba lesi sinyathelo siyisipho esihle kunazo zonke endingazicela. Kubabo bahamba ngoku, bayazi - awunabo. Fumana umzuzu, uye kwikhonkco uze uxele ingxaki yakho kummeleli wezempilo ... "
11. Adele
Ngomnyaka we-2012 umculi uAdele wafunda ukuba wayelungiselela ukuba ngumama, wagqiba ekubeni ashiye isigaba aze azame ukukhulisa umntwana. Kodwa, emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa emva kokuzalwa kwonyana ka-Angelo, kwavela ukuba indawo yindawo kuphela ayengayibalekela kuyo ukuya ... angayi kuhlambalaza!
"Ngamanye amaxesha ndaqala ukuzisola ngokuba ndandinomntwana. Ndacinga ukuba ndenze isigqibo esona sibi kakhulu ebomini bam - ukuba ngunina. Ngelo xesha kwakubonakala ngathi ndibazonda wonke umntu kunye nayo yonke into. Ndandisoyika ukuza kumntwana, ndacinga ukuba ndingamkhathaza nje, kodwa nangakumbi ndandisoyika ukuba ndibe ngumama omubi ... "
Umculi uyavuma ukuba wagcina onke amava akhe ngesicelo senkwenkwe, kwaye kuphela xa imeko yongongela kwimpilo yanquma ukubuyela kumhlobo wakhe ngoncedo nenkxaso yengqondo.
12. Jennifer Lopez
Ukwazi ulonwabo lomama, kwaye ngaphandle kokuphindwe kabini, uJay Lo unomnyaka ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe kweminyaka engama-40, kuphela, i-alas-amava awayephila awancedi, kodwa ayenzakalimaza:
"Iimpawu zokukhulelwa emva kokubeletha ndaqalisa ukufumana iintsuku ezimbalwa, njengoko uMax noEmm bazalwa. Iingcamango ezibuhlungu zandihlasela ngokukhawuleza zaza zabakhohliswa. Ewe, ndakhala ngeeyure eziliqela ngokulandelelana, ndicinga malunga nomama ombi ndiza kuba kunye nendlela abaza kuthanda ngayo kwixesha elizayo! "
Ngethamsanqa, umdlali nomculi wanceda ukunqoba ukugula kwengqondo, kwaye ngoku unyaka wesithoba, indlela ahlangabezana ngayo ngokufanelekileyo nendima yomama ongcono emhlabeni!