Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, impilo yobomi bomntu iguquka ngokucacileyo. Izinguqu zithintela yonke into, ngokuqala ngesantya sobomi, ukutya kunye nokutya. Ezinye izilungiso kufuneka zenziwe kwiidrobhe zebhinqa. Ngoku sifuna ukhethe iingubo apho kuya kulungele ukuncelisa umntwana kunye nokufihla ezinye iinguqu zokuzalwa emva komntwana. Nanku indlela efanelekileyo iya kuba ngumfesane kumama onesiko. Ziziphi iimpawu ezinawo kunye nendlela yokukhetha ingubo ngohlobo lomfanekiso ? Ngalokhu ngezantsi.
Ngobusuku kunye nokugqoka kwindlu yabahlengikazi
Abakhiqizi banamhlanje bazama ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zabo bonke abafazi, kuquka nabomama abatsha. Ukuququzelela inkqubo yokuncedisa umntwana, badala indlela ekhethekileyo yokugqoka kunye nekratshi ekhethekileyo kwindawo enqabileyo. Ikuvumela ukuba uveze inxalenye yesifuba ngaphandle kokususa i-hangers, efanelekileyo kakhulu xa kukho indawo zoluntu. Kukho imodeli eneenkcukacha ezikhethiweyo eziphambili kwicala, ezinokuthi zingabonakali kalula, zinike umntwana ithuba lokufikelela kubisi. Njengomthetho, iingubo ezinjalo zinesitayela esicacile, ngoko ke banxibe ukunyuswa ngexesha lokuhamba epakini okanye ukuhlawulela kwimvelo.
Ukuba ukhangele iingubo ezide ezinamantombazana omnesi, kungcono ukhethe imodeli enhle kunye ne "neck". Baye bagxininisa ngokugqithiseleyo umgca wokuzithoba kunye nokuvumela ukuba unobtrusively ufumane isifuba sakho kwaye uqale ukondla. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kufuneka uthathe umhlalaphantsi kwindawo efihliweyo kule nto, nangona kunjalo, uya kukhululeka ekungenikeni umva wakho ngasemva kwaye ulungelelanise ukukhishwa kwamathambo.
Ukuba iingubo zakho zasehlotyeni azifanelekanga kumama omongikazi, ngoko ke ubambe ithawula encinane okanye iipronsi ezikhethekileyo eziza kubhenca ibele ngexesha lokutya ngaphandle kokuhamba. Kule meko, unxiba unxiba nayiphi na ingubo oyithandayo.
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