Akukho mntu uya kumangaliswa ngcaciso eyayishiya yintsapho, kwaye izizathu ezi zinto zihluke ngokupheleleyo. Abasetyhini basabela kwizenzo ezinjalo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: umntu uyavuya ngokukhawuleza ukuhlukana, kwaye abanye benza zonke iinzame zokulondoloza intsapho. Kule meko, ungasebenzisa umlingo uze ucele uncedo oluvela kumaGunya aPhakamileyo.
Indlela yokubuyisela umyeni kwintsapho ngemithandazo?
Njengoko uyazi, amagama anamandla amakhulu kunye namandla, onokubakho ubunzima obunobungozi kunye nobunobumba. Kukhona imithandazo ekhethekileyo ekuvumela ukuba ubuyele umhlobo wakho, kodwa kufuneka ufunde kuphela xa unokholo kwisiphumo esihle. Umlingo weCawa uthathwa njengendlela efanelekileyo ekuxazululeni iingxaki zentsapho, kodwa zonke izenzo kufuneka zibe zilungileyo.
Kukhona umthandazo oqinileyo wokubuyisela umyeni kwintsapho, ekufuneka ifundwe emva kokushona kwelanga. Kubalulekile ukuthatha isithombe seqabane okanye into ethile. Kuyo kufuneka ubeke isandla sakho sokunxele uze uthi la magama:
"Njengoko ilanga lacaca esibhakabhakeni, alifumananga ndawo, ngoko ke, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomyeni), awukwazi ukufumana indawo ngaphandle kwam. Ngentsasa ilanga liya kuvuka kwaye kwakhona kusihlwa kwakhona kwisihlamba salo ukubuyela. Ngokufanayo nakweyinye indlela - kwintsapho, kumfazi, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama). Yiba njalo. Amen. "
Ukuba Amandla Aphakamileyo anqumle ukuba umntu ohambayo makangasondeli, akukho mithandazo eya kumnceda abuyele. Imikhuba yokubuyisela uncedo ukususa izithintelo ezikuthintela ukuba uhlangane nomthandayo. Nsuku zonke kufuneka ufunde umthandazo kuPeter noFevronia, othi:
"Abangcwele nabasebenzi bemimangaliso,
UThixo Omkhulu uPetros noKumkani weFrronia!
Ndibuyela kuni, ndiyathandaza,
Ndizisa imithandazo yam eNkosini uThixo,
Mcele kuye ukholo, inyaniso, ithemba, ubabalo, nothando olukhulu!
Ndincede, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lakho),
Ngekhoboka likaThixo (igama lomyeni) ukudibanisa ngonaphakade kwaye uphile kunye nobomi bakhe bonke!
Amen! Amen! Amen! "
Enye indlela esebenzayo yokubuyela ngokukhawuleza kwindoda kwintsapho, iquka ukusetyenziswa kwamadonki, eyenziwa ngamakhandlela okanye izinto ezilungisiweyo. Isiko kufuneka senziwe kwinyanga ekhulayo. Idoli, umntu omele umyeni, kufuneka ukuba abe neengcambu zesini, kwaye esifubeni kubalulekile ukubhala incwadi yokuqala yegama lakhe. Kulo dololi emele umfazi, ileta yokuqala yegama lakhe kufuneka ibhaliwe. Kufuneka bahlanjwe ubuso ngobuso kwaye bahlanganiswe ne-tape ebomvu. Ngeli xesha kuyimfuneko ukuthetha umthandazo onjalo:
"Abakhonzi bakaThixo (igama lakho nomfazi) bahlukana njengamazulu nomhlaba, njengamawele ahlanganiswe uthando nothando. Akukho mntu uza kusahlukanisa, akukho mntu uya kuphula la magama. Iqhinga liqinile, njengoko ndithethile, kuya kuba njalo. Amen. "
Emva koko iidodoli zimele zifakwe kwinqayi yendalo kwaye ziboshwe ngentambo ebomvu.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, indoda evela kwintsapho iya kwelinye ibhinqa, kodwa ungayisingatha le meko. Amandla amakhulu anomthandazo wokubuyisela umyeni wakhe kwintsapho evela kwindlovukazi yakhe. Kubalulekile ukuyisebenzisa kuphela xa kukho ubungqina obupheleleyo ukuba nalo mntu ufuna ukuhlala ubomi bakho bonke. Nsuku zonke, ngokumemeza, funda lo mthandazo :
"Nkosi, mkhuseli wam, ndiyathemba kuwe, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), kunye noMama kaThixo, oyiNgcwele ongcwele iTheotokos kunye nabo bonke abangcwele. Ndiza kuwe umthandazo wam ongafanelanga kunye nesicelo sokuncediswa kwixa elilukhuni. Ndincede ndibuyisele lam iqabane lam losapho (igama). Ndihlanganisane kunye nentanda yam, masixolelane ngonaphakade.
Nkosi, Ungcwele oyiNgcwele oyiTheotokos, ayingcwele, udala ummangaliso omkhulu kwaye abuyisele umkhonzi kaThixo endiyithandayo (igama), mkhulule kwizinto ezinqwenelekayo kunye nesilingo. Amen "ukufunda umthandazo kathathu ngosuku ngeveki."
Kukhona esinye isithethe esisebenzayo sokusebenza komlingo oya kumvumela ukuba iqabane libuyele kwintsapho xa ihamba nenkosikazi yakhe. Kungcono ukuqalisa ngoLwesibili, ngoLwesine okanye ngoMgqibelo phakathi kobusuku. Ukuqhuba isiko ongenakuyilungiselela, ngaphandle kobunxibo, ngaphandle kwesiphambano, kwaye kwiingubo kufuneka kube ne-nightdress kuphela. Enye imeko - vula iwindi. Kubalulekile ukuthatha ingqungquthela yamanzi angcwele kwaye ufake imboleko yakhe yomtshato kuyo kwaye kathathu ukuthetha loo njongo:
"Wena, manzi, uvela kumkhondo womtshato phezulu, ungaphantsi uya kuphuma, ukuze umyeni wam (igama) livela kumkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomphikisana) waphuma, wangena endlwini yam. E gameni likaBawo noNyana kunye noMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen. "
Emva koko, uphuze amanzi angamashumi amane kwiincinci ezincinane.
Baya kuzisa njani umyeni osasazwayo kwintsapho?
Abaninzi abafazi ukufumana indoda abayithandayo bayilungele, nangona etshatile. Ukusebenzisa iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo kunye noqheliselo lomlingo omnyama, bayakwazi ukufakela into yokubonga kwaye bayisuse kwintsapho. Ukholo oluqhelekileyo, iinyembezi kunye nosongelo aluyikulungiseli imeko, kodwa ungasebenzisa imimiselo yemilingo emhlophe.
Kubalulekile ukuqhuba umcimbi ngokuzimeleyo kwaye kubalulekile ukuba akukho nto ifanele iphazamise oku. Kubalulekile ukujongana nempuma, ukucima kumadolo okunene, nokubethela izandla kwinqaba, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uthi icebo elinjalo:
"Inyoka yaqhaqhazela indlu yethu, yabuhlungu, kuwo wonke umzimba wayo inqabileyo. Ngoku uthandaza, umyalelo, ugoba intloko phambi kwakhe. Kukho uKrestu uMsindisi kwindlu yaseParadesi, kwaye kuloo ndlu ubuhle besikhephe esingabhalwanga. Kulixabise, limile ixesha elide, ligcina i-saber engcwele. Isibambo saloo saber igolide, i-saber ngokwayo ayilula. O, isithunywa sikaThixo, uze, uthathe le nkemba ezandleni zakho. Uhudula intloko yenyoka, uyayiphonsa. Makungabhubhisi ingqondo yomkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomyeni), ukuze umtyholi onomsindo angabalawuli. Ungamvumeli ukuba ahluthe, myalelo umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomyeni wakhe). Ngaloo - ngasemva, umnyango - iingcango, umnqamlezo - umnqamlezo. Ilizwi lam liqine, ishishini lam linamathele! Isibalulekileyo! Inqaba! Ulwimi! Amen! "
Kukho esinye isithethe esiya kumisela indoda ukuba ikhumbule malunga nosapho. Kufuneka uchithe ngexesha lokushona kwelanga. Phalaza amanzi epanini ukusuka kwipompo uze ubeke umlilo omncinci ukubilisa. Ukujonga indlela amaqhubu aphakama ngayo phezu kombane, yithetha la mazwi:
"Njani la manzi abilayo nawabilisayo - amathumba,
Phinda ulandele iqhinga kathathu, emva kokuthulula amanzi athile, apho indoda inomnye umfazi.