Indoda kaLevi ivame ukufaniswa nokumkani wezilwanyana, ngoko uhlala efuna umngane ofanelekileyo wobomi. Kufanele kube mnandi ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Kukho iziphakamiso ezininzi, indlela yokulondoloza ngonaphakade umntu weNgonyama, ngenxa yokuba isini ngasinye sesini esilungileyo sinalo ithuba lokuphuma kwisihlwele. Ngokukhawuleza kubalulekile ukukhankanya ukuba akufanele udlale nayiphi na indima, kuba inkohliso iya kutyhilwa kwaye ubuhlobo buya kuphelelwa.
Unokuyithatha njani intliziyo yenkwenkwe yindoda?
Ukuba sisondele kumntu onjalo, kuya kufuneka wenze imizamo emininzi, kuba kungekhona nje uLoana eya kufuneka anqobe, kodwa kunye nabahlobo bakhe, izalamane kunye nabalingane. Into leyo kukuba abameli balo mqondiso njengaye xa abanye abantu bebahlonela bakhethiweyo.
Indlela yokuyisa umntu kaLeon:
- Ukususela okokuqala badibana neengubo, kubalulekile ukuthetha ukuba ibhinqa lifanele libe lifanelekileyo, livalwe kwaye lihle. Iingonyama ziqwalasela iinkcukacha ezincinci, oko kukuthi, ngezipikili, iinki, iinwele, njl.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lithandane, oko kukuthi, likwazi ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantu abakujikelezile.
- Abameli balo mqondiso akanakuqondakala kwaye bengafuni ukubanda nokukhuseleka, ngoko ke umfazi kufuneka ahlale ebonisa iimvakalelo zakhe. Lo mgaqo awukhathaleli nje kuphela ukuqala kobudlelwane, kodwa nakwezinye izigaba. Menze umhla wokuthandana kwaye unelise iminqweno yakho, kwaye ngoko indoda iya kuyibulela ngokubuyisela.
- Ukufumanisa indlela yokunqoba i-Leo, kukufanelekile ukukhankanya ukuba amadoda anjalo awamthanda kakhulu, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba angalibali, ukuphawula isidima sakhe ngexesha kwaye ubhiyozele impumelelo . Ibhonasi eyongezelelweyo iya kuba xa ukwenza kwabanye abantu.
- Umhlobo weNgonyama kufuneka uthembeke kuye, kuba akayi kuphinda ahlanganyele nabanye abesilisa. Uvuma ukungabi netyala, ngenxa yokuba unelisekile kukuba inenekazi yakhe ithanda abanye, kodwa akukho mfuneko ukuba ungayinqamli umgca okhoyo.
- Ukuze unqobe ingonyama yenkwenkwe, intombazana mayihlale inomdla ebomini bakhe. Kubabameli balo mqondiso, kubalulekile ukuba iqabane lakhe lixhase nayiphi na inyathelo kwaye linike iingcebiso ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
- Makuvumele loo mntu asebenze ubudlelwane kwaye abe ngumntu oyintloko. Impazamo enkulu iya kuba ngumnqweno womfazi ukulawula iqabane okanye ukulikhupha. Kumele abonise iNbongo engenakuyenza ngaphandle ko kunceda.
- Okhethiweyo womntu onjalo kufuneka abe ngoqoqosho, ukuze uLoo azive ekhaya ngokukhululekile.