Abantwana abancinci bahlala bevusa isisa, iimvakalelo ezintle kunye nezivuyo zidibene nazo. Yiyiphi imithwalo yomthwalo ephathwe ngephupha, apho intombazana encinci ithatha inxaxheba kunye noko kukulindela kwixesha elizayo, masizame ukuyifumana kunye.
Kutheni intombazana iphupha?
Kubafazi, iphupha elinjalo lingabonakalisa umnqweno wobomi bokwenene ukuzala intombi. Enye incwadi yephupha ilumkisa ukuba ngeli xesha kulungile ukuba uqaphele, ekubeni ingozi yokulahlekelwa kwepropati, ngeli xesha likhula kakhulu. Ukuba kukho intlekele nentombazana, kubalulekile ukubizwa, kuba usengozini, eya kuba ngandlela-thile inxulumene nabantwana. Iphupha apho intombazana ibonakala khona - isimboli sesigaba esitsha ebomini. Unokufumana iitalente ezintsha kwiwe okanye ufumaneke kummandla ongavamile.
Kubafazi, iphupha nentombazana encinci linokubakho ukutolika 2: mhlawumbi ufuna ukubuyela ebuntwaneni ukuba ijikelezwe ngumfudumalo nothando, okanye ufuna ukufumana umlingane onokukunceda ukulahla uxanduva kunye nobunye bomzimba. Ukuba uphupha intombazana encinci iqokelela iintyatyambo okanye ifake i-wreath, iphupha libonisa uhambo olunomdla apho ufunda izinto ezininzi ezithakazelisayo kwaye ufumane isingeniso esithembisayo. Ephupheni wamgxotha umntwana - lungela iingxaki eziza kuvela ngenxa yakho. Pamper encinci, ngoko, ngokwenene kuya kufuneka usebenze kwabanye, kodwa umphumo uya kuwufumana.
Umntwana okhungathekileyo nobuhlungu uyisibonakaliso seengxaki kunye nezithintelo kwixa elizayo. Ukuba, ngokuchasene noko, umntwana uyonwabile kwaye uhleka, ngoko ulindele ukulunga nenjabulo. Intombazana encinci ezandleni zayo iphupha - uphawu lokuba kuya kuba neengxaki ezibalulekileyo ekuhambeni kwayo okuya kufuneka ulungele ukuzaliseka kwephupha lakho. Musa ukuthukuthela kwangaphambili, ukuba umntwana uyonwabile, ngoko unako ukuyisa zonke izithintelo. Ukubamba intombazana ezandleni zakho, uvakalelwa kukuba ubushushu bakhe bubonakalisa uxinzelelo lokuziphatha, mhlawumbi uya kuxhalabisa into ethile, konke oku kunokukhokelela kwisifo esibi.
Ukuchazwa kakubi kunalo phupha othetha ngayo nentombazana. Kule meko, omnye wabahlobo bakho ugula kakhulu, oko kunokubangela ukufa. Ukuphosa i-braids kwintsana kukubonakalisa ukuzaliswa kwentsapho kwikamva elizayo okanye uza kukwazi ukuphumeza izicwangciso ezicwangcisiweyo.
Ukuba umntwana ophupha intombazana ekhangeleka kakhulu kwaye ilungele kakuhle, ngoko kufanelekile ukulinda iindaba ezilungileyo, ukuba umntwana uyadabuka kwaye ungcolile - iindaba ziya kuba zimbi. Umntwana unokubonakalisa ubuso obungenakubungozi - isimboli sento oyifunayo ngokwenene ukuba ube neentlonelo kubantu abakuzungezile, kuba unokuba yixhoba leentlebo kunye neentlogue. Iintsana ezonakalisiweyo zithembisa iingxaki kwizentengiselwano, ukutshabalaliswa kwamathemba nokuvela kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo zeengxaki.
Kutheni umntwana ephupha?
Ukuba ubonile kwiphupha indlela intombazana eyayizalelwa ngayo - isimboli sexesha eliye lafika ukufaka izicwangciso zakho, oliphupha ixesha elide. Ngeli thuba unako ukuxhomekeka kwenkxaso yomntu onomdla kunye nabantu bakho abanomdla. Ukuba umntwana uphupha, intombazana isimboli sokuba uya kuba yinto enhle kuyo yonke into abantu abavela kwimo engqongileyo bayothuka. Usana lukhala kakhulu ephupheni - uphawu lokuba ebomini bobubomi uya kuba neengxaki zempilo ezinzulu. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuba uvakatye esibhedlele kwaye wenze uviwo olunzulu ukuze uzikhusele. Ukondla intombazana yentombazana kwiphupha kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kudibana nomntu oza kutshintsha ubomi.