Umkhuba ongaqhelekanga wekati ukunyathela kwindawo leyo, engagcini nje phantsi, kodwa nangomntu, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwisisu sommeli obuthathaka, amaninzi amaninzi akaqondakali. Abanye abantu bacasulwa ngenxa yokungazi. Kodwa ngelize.
Kutheni iikati zinyathela?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukutshintsha ukusuka ezinyaweni ukuya ezinyaweni kufana nalokhu: i-blaffy bump iqhuma emadolweni akho, uzama ukuhlala kwindawo elithambileyo yomzimba wakho kunye negama lentetho liqala ukunyathela umnini okanye inkosikazi, njengokungathi inhlama iyaxubana. Ngamanye amaxesha ikati ingena kwaye ikhuphe iifayile, kodwa ayizami ukukhangela.
Kutheni umntu enomdla ongathandabuzekiyo ekuphatheni ikati, ingakumbi ukuba akayazi isizathu sokuziphatha okunjalo, ngoko kuba ubuso bombhobho, kwaye konke, bubukeka obujonge kangaka kubonakala ngathi isilwanyana sinento engqondweni. Kwaye kwangexesha elifanayo, ukucoca , ukukhululeka nokubonakalayo okubonakalayo kubonisa okuchaseneyo.
Musa ukuqhuba ikati. Ngaloo ndlela, ubonisa uthando olukhulu kunye nokwethemba kuwe. Khumbula, ngelixa esisana, umlenze naye wayigxina isisu sakhe njengesisu njengoko wayelisela ubisi ebele. Kwaye ngoku, ukunika lonke uthando kunye nokufudumala, ikati sele iqhathaniswa kwisisu sakho.
Kuthetha ntoni ukuba ikati likhubekile?
Ngaba ucinga ukuba isilwanyana esinobulumko nesilungeleyo njengetaka kuya kubonisa nje isimo sengqondo sakho ngale ndlela? Akunjalo. UMurlika uphawula yonke into ayicinga ukuba yedwa kuye. Uxubha umlenze wakhe, ubhala ezisibhozo, ugxotha intloko kunye neempumlo - konke oku kuhambelana nomqondiso kunye neengqungquthela ezisemsila, emacaleni omlomo.
Ubuntwaneni, ngelixa umntwana ephuza ubisi, uyagubungela umama wakhe, uqhube ubisi emlonyeni wakhe. Kule meko, i-kitten ngexesha elithile "sele lilungise" ngokwayo ingunaphakade yenyama. Yaye njani? Enyanisweni, ukutshintshela i-paws front, ukusasaza nokukhulula i-kogotochki. Phakathi kweminwe yenkwenkwe yi-glands, ebeka uphawu lwesifuba.
Kwaye kutheni i-pet yakho yenza oku kuwe? Ukuba ikati iyanyathelwa ngokunyanzeliswa yimigqomo yangaphambili, kholwani, undixelele ukuba ulungile nawe, njengomama wakho othandekayo nomthandayo. Kwaye ke, ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba ngoku ungowabo. Ufuna into eyodwa kuphela-impendulo yothando. Yiba ngumhlobo wokwenene wezilwanyana zakho. Akayidingi ingcebo yezinto eziphathekayo - kuphela uthando lwakho lokubuya kunye nokunyamekela.