Kwabaninzi abantu, ukukhethwa kwesipho kwimibhiyozo yokuzalwa, izikhumbuzo kunye nezinye iholide kunye nemibhiyozo inxulumene nokubonakalisa ubuhlungu kunye nokungabaza. Kunzima kakhulu ukugqiba oko ukhetha kubantwana. Emva koko, ukuba abantu abadala banganika imali okanye bacinge oko bafuna ukuzifumana (ukuba ukufana kwezinto ezinomdla kuvumela), ngoko-ke imali yabantwana (nokuba ixabiso elikhulu) ayinalo xabiso kunye nokubaluleka njengesipho esikhethiweyo. Xa ukhetha isipho kubantwana, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqwalasela ubudala kunye neminqweno yomntwana. Kule nqaku siza kuqwalasela oko unokunika inkwenkwe iminyaka emi-5.
Ngethuba lokuzalwa, abafana abaneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, njengomthetho, abanalo iinjongo ezenziwe kakuhle, banokuthathwa yizinto ezahlukeneyo kunye nemidlalo. Kukulungele ukufumanisa kwangaphambili uhlobo oluthile lokuzonwabisa oluthandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabahlobo benkwenkwe yokuzalwa kwaye unike into efanelekileyo kule nto.
Izipho ezilungileyo kakhulu zenkwenkwana emihlanu ubudala
Ukuba awunalo ithuba lokuhlola ukuba yiyiphi imidlalo eyenziwa ngumntu wokuzalwa othanda kakhulu, i-ATV okanye ibhasikidi ingaba isipho esihle. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba zizinto ezithandwayo, nayiphi na imvana iya kuxabisa isipho esinjalo. Ibhayisekile kwinkwenkwe yeminyaka emihlanu ayiyona indlela yokunyakaza, kodwa nayo inethuba lokuzivakalisa, ngoko unokunyamekela "ukubonakala" okukhawulezayo kwesipho.
Izixhobo zemidlalo kwiimeko ezininzi ziba nesipho esiyimpumelelo nesifunekayo. Kufuneka kuphela ukhetho lwemidlalo ngokuhambelana nomoya wenkwenkwe. Abantwana bahlala bevuyiswa izipho ezingasetyenziselwa kunye nabahlobo - ibhola lebhola, i-volleyball, i-basketballs, iifenethi ze-tennis, itafile ye-ping-pong okanye i-hockey ye-air - zonke ezi zikhetho ziza kubhenela kubathandi bemidlalo esebenzayo.
Abantwana banamhlanje bayathanda kakhulu ii-electronics. Kwaye ukuba iimeko zemali zivumelekile, qiniseka ukuba, i-console yegeyimu, ikhompyutha yecwecwe okanye i-smartphone yemodeli yakutshanje ayiyi kushiywa ngaphandle kwengqalelo yomntu wokuzalwa.
Abantwana abaninzi kwiminyaka emi-5-6 iphupha lezilwanyana ezifuywayo. Inja, i-parrot, i-hamster okanye intlanzi ingaba isipho esinqwenelekayo kunomntwana kunamathoyizi athile kakhulu. Kodwa, ngaphambi kokuthenga isilwanyana, qhagamshelana nabazali bomntwana uze ucele imvume yabo. Emva koko, kunika inja wena, kwaye uyayikhathalela ngokuyinqobo kubo.
Ukuba umntwana ukhuthalele ngokwaneleyo, unengqiqo engqondweni, cinga ngabayili beefayile ezahlukeneyo, imodeli, iipuzzle. Abaqambi, iipuzzle, iiseti zamagosa ziya kuba ngabafana abaneminyaka emi-5 egqwesileyo (kwaye iluncedo!) Isipho.
Uninzi lwabafana abaneminyaka engama-5 ubudala baya kuvuyiswa ngezixhobo "zetrasi", iimodeli zothutho (zombini ubukhulu obukhulu kunye ncinane kwi-radio control), iisethi zokudlala (kwi-spyware kunye ne "superhero" kwii-chips kunye neBakugans).
Ukuba ufuna ukukhuthaza inzala kwisayensi, isipho esikhulu siza kuba yithelescope, i-microscope okanye i-laboratory yesayibrari yabantwana.
Yintoni ongayi kunika
Nalu uluhlu lwezipho ezingenakwenzeka ukumchukumisa umntwana, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uphawule iimeko zakhe zeeholide.
- Amanqaku, ipeni kunye nezinye izinto "zesikolo".
- Iinguqu ezithengiweyo zezipho, azifunayo (ifoni yefoni kunokuba ikhona).
- Izambatho.
- Amathoyizi owaphuphayo ebuntwaneni bakho (inyaniso yokuba wakhula kwi-turtle ninjas ayithethi ukuba namhlanje abantwana bonke bayabathanda).
- Isipho sonyaka sonyaka (musa ukunikela into efanayo kwiholide zonke).
Xa ukhetha isipho musa ukukhawuleza, ungathengi iqoqo lokuqala lemidlalo kwivenkile yokudlala. Sebenzisa ixesha elide ukucinga ngokuthenga, ukuyihlolisisa, nokubonisa amathuba okusetyenziswa kwayo. Khetha isipho kungekhona "uphawu", kodwa ngomphefumlo. Kule meko, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nako ukukhetha ngokuchanekileyo into oyifunayo, kwaye isipho sakho siya kuvuyisa umntwana ixesha elide.