Mhlawumbi abantu abasondele kwihlabathi, ngaphandle kwabazali - ngabazalwana kunye noodade. Phantse rhoqo kunye noodade bambana, khuphisana, bafungele, balwe nothando lomzali. Kwaye konke oku kwenzeka rhoqo, kodwa akuhlali ixesha elide. Unokuthukuthela udade wakho njengoko uthanda, kodwa uya kuhlala ehlala kuwe yintombazana ethandekayo kwaye ethandekayo, ngoko uyithande kwaye uhlale eqonda, uya kuhlala exhasa, inkxaso kunye nomzekelo.
Ngosuku lokuzalwa loodade olulindelwe ixesha elide, zonke izicwangciso zihlehlisiwe kwaye umbuzo omnye engqondweni - sisiphi isipho sokunika udadewabo? Ngoko ukuba kwakungeke kube yinto engabonakaliyo, eyisikratshi, kwaye, ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, ayifanelekanga ngokupheleleyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokutsho kweengoma ezidumileyo, "abahlobo abangcono kakhulu kumantombazana bangamadayimane", kodwa mayeke loo madoda ayiphule, kwaye siza kuqonda oko kunokunikwa udade ngaphandle kwamacangci namacici.
Izipho zoshishino
Umhlali ophakathi kwelizwe lethu, nasiphi na isipho siqala ngexabiso, ngoko kuqala qaphela ukuba ungakanani imali ozimisele ukuyisebenzisa. Emva koko zama ukukhumbula kakuhle izinto ezithandayo kunye nokukhethwa koodade wakho. Musa ukulibala, ukhetha isipho ongekho kuwe kwaye akusikho into oyithandayo.
Ipesenti ethile yabantu bakholelwa ukuba isipho kufuneka sibe luncedo kwaye sisebenzise. Ngoko ukuba akayi kuma e-shelf aze athulile, kodwa ingasetyenziselwa ubomi bemihla ngemihla. Inketho efanelekileyo kukuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba udade wakho wayefuna ukuzifumana njani. Ingaba ifowuni entsha yeselula, ikhamera, ingaphakathi, isethi yezonyango ezikhethekileyo okanye umzulisi wezemidlalo. Ukuba asikwazanga ukuyifumana, sikhetha oko kusenokuhlala kusebenza ngokufanelekileyo-isikhwama, umnikazi wekhadi webhishini, iiglavu, isambulela, isethi yokwenza umuthi.
Izipho zomphefumlo
Ukongeza kwizipho ezisebenzayo, kukho izipho zomphefumlo. Ngamanye amaxesha ndifuna ukunyanzela udade wam kwaye ndimzise isipho esisebenzayo, kodwa ukwenza ubomi bakhe bumnandi ngakumbi. Emva kwakho konke, ngamanye amaxesha asinakho okwaneleyo kubantu abanenkathalo nabanyamekelayo. Ukuba udade uhlala kude nawe nentsapho yakho, isipho esiya kunene siyakhumbuza kuye abantu abasondeleyo. Njengesipho esinjalo, abanye abantu benza i-albhamu enkulu yezithombe kunye neefoto zentsapho okanye iipowusta zokuzalwa komdade wabo, eziqokelelwe kwifom yeekholegi ezivela kwiifoto zeendlela ezahlukeneyo zobomi bakhe.
Ukuba udade unedo elimnandi, ngoko kufuneka ahlaziywe ngezipho zokugcoba. I-oda, kodwa bhetele bheka ikhekhe yozalwa lomdakenu. Bhala kulo nge-cream ukhala uvule kwaye unqwenela. Unokumnika ibhasikidi enkulu enqabileyo
Ukuba udade wakho ufumene okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, wahlala ekhaya - uyihlawule ityelelo leendawo zakho ezizithandayo, izixeko okanye amazwe. Ngaphandle koko, sebenzisa izatifikethi zesipho esasasazeka ngoku zonke naziphi na iinkonzo. Ngokuxhomekeka kwizinto ezithandwayo kunye nezinto ezithandwayo zoodade, mnike isatifikethi somgangatho weklasi ekhwele ihashe okanye i-skiing, njengesifundo kumdaniso wamanje, ukudweba okanye ukufakela imodeli, ukutyelela kwiseshoni ye-SPA okanye i-aromatherapy. Yintoni endikumele ndinike udadewethu omdala njengenkqubo yenkcubeko? Amatikiti ekhatywayo, umzekelo. Uze uthathe udade omncinci kwifilimu yakho yezingane (intsha).
Musa ukulibala ukuba imisebenzi yezandla zomhla wokudade wakho uhlala efanelekileyo. Apha kubo unako ukubeka yonke umphefumlo wakho nothando. Mhlambulule umlotha odwetshiwe, ubophe iqhekeza kunye neemittens, wenze i-keychain yangaphambili okanye i-flowerpot engavumelekanga kwi-flowerpot.
Kodwa isipho esibalulekileyo kuodade wakho siya kuba wena, ububele bakho kunye nenkathalo, inkxaso kunye nothando.