Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, iimpawu ziye zangenelela ebomini bomntu kwaye into enomdla kakhulu, ngaphandle kokuqinisekiswa kwezesayensi, ezininzi iinkolelo zizaliseka. Ubulumko obuninzi buntu buhlobene nomzimba womntu kwaye kubaliswe iziganeko ezahlukahlukeneyo zekamva. Sincoma ukuba uqonde oko kuthetha ntoni ukuba iqabane lakho lichongiwe. Sebenzisa iinkolelo zinokuthi ukuba ukubetha kubonakalisa ngokungaqhelekanga, ngaphandle koko, oku kungabonisa ubukho beengxaki ezithile zezempilo.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba i-chin ishayisa?
Kukholelwa ukuba i-chin ngezinga elithile linxulumene nobomi bakhe bomntu, ngokunjalo ukukhangela kule ndawo kufanekisela ukuzonwabisa okuhle. Ukuba iimvakalelo ezinjalo zavela phambi komhla, ungakhathazeki, kuba yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle. Kuphela ukubikezela akukhathaleli ubuhlobo ngokubanzi, kodwa kubhekisela kumhla othile. Ingqungquthela engalindelekanga kwingingqi ye-chines for singles yintlanganiso yomntu onomdla onokubakho ukuba abe nolwalamano olonwabileyo, kodwa baya kuphila ixesha elifutshane. Kubantu abaphakathi kwimbini, isibonakaliso esichazela ukuba isilwanyana sixosha umfazi sithetha ukuba esinye isiqingatha sinomona kakhulu, ngoko kubalulekile ukucinga ngezenzo zakho ukwenzela ukuba ungabhubhisi othandekayo.
Ukufumana ulwazi oluthe vetshe, kubalulekile ukuba ucinge ngecala le-chin yakho, ngoko ke ukuba ukubonakala kuvela ngakwesokunene, kuyisimboli esibi, ukufuzisela iindaba ezimbi, kwakunye neengxaki. Ngamanye amaxesha i-harbinger yenkxwaleko enzulu ekwazi ukuphela kwimfazwe. Ngoku makhe sibone ukuba yintoni ibhinqa lowesifazane elisekhohlo. Kule meko, ukubetha ngumqondiso obonakalisiweyo, owenza ukuba kufumaneke iindaba ezilungileyo. Ukongeza, umntu unokuthembela ekubeni iingxaki ezikhoyo kunye nemiba iya kuba nemiphumo emihle. Kukho enye ingcaciso ichaza ukuba ithetha ukuthini ukuba i-chin issky, ngokunjalo ukubetha kungabangela iingxaki zezempilo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba lesi sifo sinokuchaphazela izihlobo kunye nabahlobo ababetha.
Ukuba iqela lidibene nomnye umntu, lithetha ukuba kwixesha elisondeleyo kulindelwe isiganeko esithile, mhlawumbi uya kuphakamisa umgangatho wemisebenzi okanye ufumane iindaba ezilungileyo.