Akunakwenzeka ukuba kuya kubakho umfazi oya kuhlala ezolile kwaye evuya emva kokuhamba kwenkqubo yokuqeda ukukhulelwa .
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhipha isisu kusombulula iingxaki ezithile zabasetyhini, kodwa kwelinye - kukhokelela ekuveleni kwezinto ezintsha. Ukukhipha isisu kumfazi onenjongo ephambili ukuzalwa kwabantwana akuyona nje ingxaki engokwemvelo, njenge-endometritis yokutshatyalaliswa kwesikhashana, kodwa kunye nokukhathazeka okukhulu kwengqondo, kwengqondo kunye nokomoya. Ukuba uhamba ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kwimeko athetha malunga ne-postabortny syndrome.
Ngokuqhelekileyo le nto isifo sabasetyhini:
- ngubani okwangexesha elide akazange alinge ukuphazamisa ukukhulelwa, kunye nesimo esinobuchule bokuzala;
- abaye banyanzeliswa ukuba baphuphe isisu ngabalingani babo besilisa, amalungu omndeni okanye oogqirha;
- oye wahlupheka kwixesha elidlulileyo ngeengxaki zengqondo, kuquka ukudandatheka;
- abangazange bavelise ubudlelwane kunye noomama;
- osuke wakhupha isisu;
- oye waphupha ngasese okanye emva komhla.
I-syndrome ye-post-isisu ibonakaliswe njani?
Iimpawu zeli syndrome zi:
- ukudandatheka ;
- ingqondo yokungathembeki nokunganakwa;
- ingqiqo engenakuqondakala kunye nomnqweno wokukhala;
- iindlobongela kunye namaphupha amabi;
- ukukhawuleza;
- iinkumbulo ezingapheliyo zokukhupha isisu;
- umsindo ongenangqiqo;
- ukulahlekelwa kwesithunzi sakhe.
Konke oku kunokukhokelela ekuphukeni okuthile ekuziphatheni kwabasetyhini. Unokuqala ukusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala okanye iziyobisi; Kukho ubunzima ekujonganeni namadoda; kubanda kubomi besondo, ukuhlaselwa ngumsindo okanye ukukhathazeka ngokomzimba xa kuthethwa ukukhipha isisu; ukuphepha ukuthintela kunoma ubani.
Emva kokufa
Ukubuyiselwa emva kokukhipha isisu ibhinqa inokuncedwa ngenkxaso yabathandekayo bakhe okanye ngoncedo lwengqondo yengqondo. Ngaphandle koko, iingxaki zomzwelo zowesifazane owasinda ekuphelelweni kokukhulelwa komzimba, unokuhlaselwa ekudakaleni okukhulu.
Ibhinqa kule meko idinga ukuphosa iimvakalelo zakhe namava kwintetho kunye nezihlobo, abahlobo okanye isazi sezengqondo esiya kuqonda nokuyixhasa. Ngelo xesha, umfazi ngokwakhe kufuneka enze imizamo 'yokuzikhupha' kwixinzelelo lokukhupha isisu. Ukwenza oku, ufuna ukuzinwaba-ukuthetha nabantu, ukwenza izinto azifunayo, ukufumana umdla omtsha, nangona oko konke kubonakala kungenanto.
Abasetyhini abaninzi basombulula isifo sabo sokukhulelwa kwesisu emva kokuzalwa komntwana okanye ukutholwa (ukucamagushela amatyala abo).