Kungekudala umntwana wakho uya kubhiyozela ukuzalwa kwakhe kokuqala kunye nabazali abaninzi banomdla kumbuzo-kubalulekile ukunciphisa umntwana ngonyaka kwaye kutheni, ngokuthe ngqo, kuyimfuneko.
Iingcambu zeso siko zityhila kwiRashiya yangaphambi kobuKristu, xa kwakukho izithethe ezahlukahlukeneyo zobuhedeni ezazingqinelwa ngalolo xesha. Abanye, abagwetywanga, baye basinda nanamhla. Ngoko, isithethe sokusoka kweenwele ngomnyaka ongenawo nawuphi na ubungqina obunokwenzululwazi obuqinisekisiweyo.
Napha, nathi, oomama kunye nogogo, ngokukholelwa ukuba sinjalo, wasicoca nathi. Kwaye ukuba uThixo akavumelekanga, amacandelo, ayalukile ngaphambi konyaka, oku kusengathi ulwaphulo-mthetho.
Xa unokunquma umntwana - ucela. Kwaye ke, xa oku kuyimfuneko. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana wasweleka inwele eninzi kwaye eninzi ende, kwaye ezinyangeni ezintandathu iinwele ziqala ukunyuka emehlweni akhe, okanye ukufudumala kwesitalato kunye neenwele ezide zinika umntwana umonakalo. Abazali abampofu, bexhatshazwa yienkolelo, baqale ukufaka iinwele ngeenkontsho zeenwele, ukubopha ngeerubha, kodwa umntwana onjalo uyasusa ngokukhawuleza entloko, kwaye kufuneka uphinde uphinde uqhubeke.
Endaweni yoko, unokwenza unqumle iipreski ezingaphezulu ngaphandle kokuhlamba intloko yakho. Kwaye umntwana uya kuziva engcono, kwaye abazali abayi kuphinda bathuthunyiswe kwakhona ngeenwele, emva koko, ukunyamekela iinwele zomntwana omncinci ngumsebenzi onzima.
Oomama abaninzi bathemba ukunqunyulwa kwentloko yomntwana kwizakhono -bakhokelela kwi-hairdresser, ukuba sele bevumelana nenkosi. Emva kwakho konke, akusiyo wonke umntu onokukwazi ukubonisa ubugcisa beebhokhwe, kodwa ufuna ukuba umntwana abukeke enhle kwaye ephathekayo.
Kodwa ininzi kuthi sisayilinga, kwaye kungekho rhoqo umntwana ovuma ukuba wayegqala umntu ongowesihambi nomfokazi.
Ndingayinqumla njani umntwana wam?
Ukuze unqume umntwana, kufuneka uxoxe naye. Ukuba umntwana uneminyaka emi-2 ubudala, unokuchazwa ukuba unina ufuna ukumenza abe mnandi. Yitshale phambi kwesibuko esikhulu kwinqanaba lamaso ukuze umntwana angayigcina inkqubo. Ngenxa yale njongo usihlalo wokusondla ufanelekile ngokufanelekileyo. Umama ngamnye unokukwazi ukuphawula ngezenzo zakhe, ukuze aphazamise ingqalelo yomntwana kwindawo yokunyanzeliswa, yokungahlali ehlala kwindawo enye. Inkonzo enhle, njengendlela yokuphazamiseka, iya kuba ngumbono wekhathuni.
Indlela yokunquma umntwana ngomatshini wokubhala?
Indlela elula kwaye ekhawulezayo yokusika inkwenkwe kukunquma nge-typewriter yabantwana abakhethekileyo (ngokukhethekileyo ngamacandelo e-ceramic), ekubeni izixhobo ezindala zidonsa iinwele zabantwana kungakhathaliseki ukuba zibukhali kakuhle kangakanani. Oku kubangelwa kukuba iinwele zabantwana zincinci, kwaye kumatshini amakhulu umntu omkhulu phakathi kweentambo kunye nomgama omkhulu phakathi kwamazinyo. Ngako oko, iinwele azipheli, kodwa zivele zifakwe kwikhefu phakathi kweengqungqungquthela kunye ne-twitch, kwaye oku kubangela umonakalo kwiibhulabhu zeenwele.
Indlela elula ukuyinquma phantsi kombhobho omnye, ngoko ke inwele yonke indawo iya kuba nobude obufanayo. Ziqhelanisa neenwele kunye neengcebiso ezimbalwa zokufumana ubude obude bezinwele, unako xa umntwana ekhula kwaye eba yinto engaphezulu.
Ukuze ixesha lokuqala lokunquma kakuhle umntwana, kufuneka ulungiselele ngokufanelekileyo. Qinisekisa ukuba uquka izihlobo kule nkqubo, eya kuphazamisa ingqalelo yengane.
Indlela yokunquma umntwana ngeesisi ekhaya?
Ukuba umntwana wakho ukwesaba iinwele, kunye neenwele zikhulile sele zikhona, unokuzama indlela elula kwaye efanelekileyo. Kanye kunye nomncedisi womntwana, bahlaselwa kwindawo yokuhlamba, ekuthiwa bahlamba. Mnike amathoyizi amnandi kwaye unqunywe ngokunyanisekileyo iinwele zakhe, uqale emva kwentloko yakhe. Emva koko banqumla iinwele ezivela phezulu kwintloko, iintempile, kwaye banqumla ama-bangs.
Xa unqunqisa umntwana onenwele ezibuhlungu, ungakulibala ukuba xa unxiba iinwele zakho ngaphambi kokusika, ngoko xa zomile, ziya kuba ngama-3-4 centimeters ezimfutshane kunokuba ufuna.