Iingcali zengqondo zifundisa abaxhasi babo ukuba bangajongi ngombono wabanye. Njengomzekelo, unokusebenzisa iifoto zabantu abasakhathalelayo malunga noko kwenzekayo.
Ukugxininisa imbono yabanye, abantu kufuneka baphule ngokwabo ngandlela-thile, benqwenela ukuzonwabisa ngezinto ezininzi. Kwezinye iimeko, kufuneka ufunde "ukubandakanya i-pofigism." Ingqwalasela yakho-umzekelo wabantu abakhathalele ngokwenene imibono yabanye.
1. Xa unesithuba esithile sokupheka ukutya, khangela izixhobo ezihlukeneyo. Uxolo ngabanye abagibeli belo moto, omele akhale esitratweni.
2. Ngethuba lokuphumla kwemini, bonke abasebenzi banokwenza nantoni na ayifunayo.
3. Isivukelo sangempela, silungele ukuphulwa kuzo zonke izibheno ezine ze-hypermarket. Ndiyazi ukuba iphelile njani?
4. Xa kuninzi ixesha elisele ngaphambi kwendiza, kwaye unako ukuphumla, uphawule umagazini wakho ozithandayo. Ukuthotyelwa kwabangqongeyo ngokucacileyo akukhathaleli.
5. Ixesha lokukhukula alikho isizathu sokuhlala ekhaya, ingakumbi ukuba ivenkile yendawo ithengisa amaqabunga amnandi.
6. Kutheni uchithe ixesha elingenamsebenzi, xa unako ukuguqula i-autopilot kwaye ufunde iphephandaba elithakazelisayo.
7. Ulawulo lo mfazi: uqeqesho luya kusebenza xa luqala nge-cocktail eyintandokazi. Unokuzama ukusebenza kule mgaqo.
8. Umfanekiso obizwa ngokuthi "kutheni le meko iyadingeka kuwo onke" okanye "xa yonke into imelene nenkqubo".
9. Xa umntu ephelile, akadingeki ukuba asebenzise imali ekuthengeni iimpahla zasebusika, kuba unokuhamba ngendlela enjalo.
10. Ukuba isiko asinayo indebe yeziphuzo zomthamo ofanelekileyo, ngoko kufuneka ulungele ukuhamba.
11. Lo luba luncedo olukhulu lwegalufa okanye i-nerve ye-steel ne-disregard yezinto ezenzekayo.
12. Ukuba uya kuthenga kunye nomama wakho, ngoko nawuphina uneminyaka engakanani na ukuba ube ngumntwana omncinane.
13. Lo mfana ujwayele ukuhlola iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo, imisebenzi ekhethekileyo kunye nokukhangela, kuye iimeko eziqhelekileyo.
14. Ngomlilo oshushu, ulungele izinto ezininzi ukuze uhlaziye. Oku kunokubizwa ngokuba yimfihlo evela kuMarilyn Monroe.
15. Kutheni kuphazamiseka, ukuba indlu iyaqhekeka kwimibhobho, unokwenza ngathi ekugqibeleni uhlala eholide elide. Siyathemba ukuba loo mntu akanalo abamelwane basezantsi.
16. Xa ulala embhedeni, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ucima i-Intanethi, kwaye sele ulungele ukujonga ifilimu ethandekayo.
17. Kubonakala ngathi ngelo xesha umdlali wezemidlalo wayebukele intombazana enhle, kodwa ukuba kungenzeka ukuba ahambe ensimini yalingana nantoni.
18. Wonke umntu unomdla kakhulu ekufuneni isithunzi abazange baqaphele ukuba umntu omnye waphuphuma ngaphandle kwesakhelo. Sithemba ukuba bakufumene elwandle.
19. Umzekelo ocacileyo we-pofigizma enkulu, ebaluleke kakhulu, ukuba ayipheli kwengozi.
20 Intombazana ukususela ebuntwaneni iphupha ngokukhwele idiza, kodwa ayizange isebenze, ngoko ke kufuneka ndizenzele i-analog.
21. Wonke umntu ufumana ukuphumla aze acamngce ngendlela yakhe, into eyona nto yiphumo.
22. Ukuba ukhohliwe ukuthenga ikhandlela ikhandlela, kodwa inkwenkwe yokuzalwa yayifuna ukwenza isifiso. Okanye mhlawumbi le ndlela entsha?
23. Xa kwakukho iiyure ezimbalwa ukulungiselela iphepha elide, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ulala embhedeni, ngaphandle kokuba utshintshe iingubo zakho.
24. Awunako ukwesaba nantoni na, kuba indawo ilondolozwe ngokucophelela, kuphela umfanekiso owufanelanga, kodwa uyangcola.
25. Ezi zibopheko ezithandekayo azimangalisi nabani na, kodwa apha kwi-intanethi kubonakala ividiyo entsha epholileyo.
26. Amaqela omfundi awamniki ubuthongo obuqhelekileyo, ngoko kufuneka ufune iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuzonwabisa. Mhlawumbi ukhumbula oko kungcono?
27. I-Pofigizm iyazalwa nakwizilwanyana ezingakhathalelekiyo ezenzekayo, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba kwakulungele ukulala.
28. Ukulindela inkosana ngehashe elimhlophe, lo mfazi wayekhatywe ukujonga ngaphandle kwefestile aze aqhube kwizenzo ezingakumbi.
29. Yintoni yokwenza utyhafu, emva kokuba zonke ziimeko ezibucace ngokucacileyo aziyi kunceda, kwaye apha i-cigarette yile nto.
30. Indoda okanye into ayinayo ixesha lokumisa emva kokuhlamba, okanye idibanisa iitalente zakhe.
31. Xa uthanda indlu yakho ukuba nokuba ingozi yokuwa kunye nokufa ayiyi kukukhangela.
32. Ndaya kwiintaba, kwaye indiza yayilibaziseka ixesha elide, kuhle ukuba kwakukho intente kunye nebhegi yokulala, kuba unako ukuphumla ngenduduzo.
33. Ukuziphatha kakuhle kuka-ugogo-ukungaphenduli ngokusetyenziswa komntwana, uya kulala phantsi, uya kuzinza kwaye uya kuvuka.
34. Ivenkile ibambe isenzo, kwaye isivakashi ngasinye singayivavanya umsebenzi we-console entsha. Umfana wathatha ithuba eli-100%.
35. Ukuphumla makube kunye nentuthuzelo ephezulu: ngaphandle komntu ongaphazamisayo, akayikuvala ilanga.