Ukuze iindwendwe ezimenyiwe zingabi zibuhlungu ngosuku lokuzalwa, kukho imincintiswano emnandi kunye nekratshi ngoncedo apho iholide iya kuba mnandi kwaye ayikhunjulwe ixesha elide. Umbutho omhle, olungele ukulungelelaniswa kweholide, iimincintiswano ezingenangqondo, kuya kunceda ukuqulunqa inkampani, nangona abantu abancinci abayaziyo omnye komunye bayamenywa ngosuku lwabo lokuzalwa, iziganeko zokuzijabulisa ziya kukwazi ukuzinxibelelana kwaye zenze ukuba unxibelelwano lwabo lungabonakali kwaye luphumelele.
Kukho imincintiswano emnandi kakhulu ekwazi ukuxubusha iingxoxo, ukuguqula umkhosi wokuzalwa komcimbi kwisiganeko esingenakulibaleka esiza kuzisa uvuyo kunye nolonwabo kubo bonke abakhona. Kubaluleke kakhulu, ukukhetha ukhuphiswano ekusebenziseni kwabo kwiholide, ukukhusela ixesha elihlaselayo, elixhatshaza elijoliswe kwiindwendwe ezixutywayo okanye zibandakanya izinto ezingamangalisi kubo.
Eminye imizekelo yentlangano yemincintiswano
Ukuba usuku lokuzalwa lugubha ekhaya, ke umncintiswano onobuhle kuwo, olungiselelwe abantu abadala, unokuthi oku kulandelayo:
"I-Milkmaid"
Olu khu phiswano lulungelelaniswe xa amalungu alo atywala, le nto iya kuba yintloko kwiimpumelelo. Phakathi kweemilenze zesigxina esiphenduliweyo, kufuneka ulungise iglavu ye-raber, elalizaliswe ngamanzi. Imizuzu eminwe yakhe iminyango encinane, abathathi-nxaxheba bayamenywa ukuba "ubisi inkomo," lowo unayo "inkomo" ngokukhawuleza uza kuba "ipenny".
"Yibamba isitya"
Olu khuphiswano, abadlali ababini kunye namaqela amabini angamenywa. Isangqa esicacisiwe sibandakanya abathathi-nxaxheba, abanesandla sabo sokunene sibophelelwe emzimbeni, kwaye isitya sibeka entloko. Umsebenzi ukuphula intloko kwintloko yentshaba, ngelixa ungavumeli ukuba ikhuphe yona. Ukuba iqela lidlala, ngoko kukhishwa kwento nganye yekhanda, inikezelwa ngongoma.
Imincintiswano edibeneyo yosuku lokuzalwa yilabo baqhuba kakuhle, bafaka isandla ekunandiseni, ukuvuselela ukubhiyozela kunye nokwenza kube lula. Ingqalelo ngokucokisekileyo kufuneka ucinge ngokucwangcisa kwaye iququzelele imincintiswano emihle yokuzalwa kwabantwana. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana ngamnye akwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba kuzo ukuze kungabikho mntu uphukisayo ngaphandle kokuba abe ngumnqobi. Kuyafaneleka ukulungiselela umntwana ngamnye isipho esincinci, esamkelwe njengomvuzo wokuthatha inxaxheba kwintsebenziswano, kwaye kungekhona nje ukunqoba.
Ungakhethi imincintiswano yabantwana, okuya kuba nzima kuminyaka yabo, kwidini lokuzalwa kufuneka lithandeke, kunokuba lube nexinzelelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokubambisana kweeholide zezingane, bamema abaququzeleli abanamava abanokunyamekela ukuzonwabisa kwezingane, iimincintiswano ezonwabileyo kunye nemibuzo eyokwenza isiseko semibhiyozo yabantwana.
Imincintiswano yabantwana inokwahlukana kwiimoto, ukudlala kunye kunye nemincintiswano yobungqiqo ihlelwe. Kucetyiswa ukuba kubandakanye bonke abantwana abamenywe kwiqela ngelixa elifanayo kwimincintiswano yabantwana. Olu khuphiswano lunoku:
"Cinga umbala"
Kumculo, ummemezeli uyakhwaza igama lombala ukuba achukumiswe aze acinge, umzekelo, ukuya ku-10. Abantwana baqala ukukhangela izinto zombala ofanelekileyo, bebambisana iimpahla. Abathathi-nxaxheba abangayifumani into ngexesha kunye nombala ocacileyo, ngokukhawuleza baphuma.
"Zhadina"
Umncedisi usasaza inamba enkulu yeebhola ezithengileyo phantsi, kwaye abathathi-nxaxheba kufuneka bafake izandla baze babambe ezininzi iibhola. Ophumeleleyo nguye "unomdla".
Ukuze usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana lube mnandi yonke into ibalulekileyo: izipho zombini ezilindelwe ixesha elide, iifowuni ezithandayo, kunye nokuzonwabisa okuhle kunye nokuhle.