Ukukhetha iphepha lodonga kwi-nursery, kufuneka ukhethe okuthandwayo kwimihlaba enobungani, engeyona into enobuthi, engesiyo imbangela yokuphendula, ngenxa yokuba impilo yomntwana - kuqala kwayo yonke into. Into ebalulekileyo yesibini kukuba isondo somntwana. Iphepha lodonga ekamelweni lekwenkwenkwe lihluke kwi-lodonga yamantombazana, akudingeki ukuba ibe yothando kunye nobumnene, kuba zenzelwe ikamva lomntu.
Xa unquma ukuba yiphi iphepha lodonga lokukhetha ikamelo lekinkwenkwe, okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuthelekisa nabo ubudala bomntwana. Ngenkwenkwe yeminyaka eneminyaka engama-17 ubudala, iphepha lodonga elikhanyayo likhulu, ngeemoto ezidwetshwe kubo, amaqhawe amathandabuzo amathandwayo, iikhathuni - nakweyiphi na into, imifanekiso kwipransti kufuneka ibangele umntwana. Ungasebenzisa iphepha lodonga , kunye nezilwanyana ezihlekisayo kuzo okanye iimifanekiso ezivela kumabali adventure, ekhuphe enye yeendonga. Into eyona nto kukuba umoya ophezulu kwigumbi lezingane kufuneka umshiye umntwana ngengqondo yolonwabo noxolo, kunye negalelo ekuphuculeni ubuntu bomntwana.
Ukukhetha iphepha lodonga lomntwana osemtsha
Umbala wephepha lodonga lenkwenkwe yomntwana kubaluleke kakhulu, izazi zengqondo zithi zichaphazela ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo nomoya. Iphephadonga lomfana osemtsha lilungele ukukhetha kunye naye, linike umbono wakhe. Umbala weendonga ekamelweni le-adolescence akufanele likhanyise kakhulu, kuba umntwana kufuneka alale egumbini lakhe, enze umsebenzi wesikolo, kunye nemibala ephumayo yokusetyenziselwa ekwakheni igumbi kungcono ukuphumla nokufunda: ukukhanya okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, i-beige, eluhlaza okomhlaza. Isisombululo esihle kukuxuba iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zamaphephadonga. Hlanganisa iphepha lodonga lenkampu yenkwenkwe, kwaye siphumelele ngenxa yesiganeko samakhishini, samanje. Kule meko, unako ukudibanisa imifanekiso yamaphephadonga ehlukeneyo ngokubumba, umbala okanye iphethini.
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