Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ume, cinga ingqondo yakho kwihlabathi, uthathe umoya kwaye ucinge ngekamva. Quo vadis? - Siya kuphi? Ngaba sihamba ngendlela efanelekileyo? Mhlawumbi ufanele utshintshe inkambo? Yintoni esizama ukuyifumana? Kungenzeka ukuba iingxelo zabameli abakhulu bentlalo ziya kunceda ufumane iziganeko eziyimfuneko.
Ubomi bomntu wanamhlanje kunye nolwazi olungapheliyo lweenkcukacha luyinkimbinkimbi kwaye luninzi, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo abantu balahleka nje phakathi kweentlobo zeziganeko kunye nemigangatho yemihla ngemihla. Kubalulekile ukwazi ngexesha oqala ukuhamba ngalo, kwaye ungavumeli ukuba iimeko zithathe. Yiba ngumdali wobomi bakho, ungathembeli kwixesha elizayo - inqaba - intombazana enomfazi, unganamomotheka.
Funda ezi nkcazo ezicacileyo zabantu abadumileyo, qwa lasela, kwaye mhlawumbi, baya kukunceda uqokelele ubomi bakho. Thatha umzuzwana kwindlela yakho yemihla ngemihla uze ufumane ixesha lakho.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uxakeke kangakanani - emsebenzini okanye ekhaya nabantwana - zama ukubekela eceleni ubuncinane imizuzu emininzi imihla ngemihla ukutshintshela kwenye ingqungquthela kwaye ucinge ngokubaluleka kokuba. Kwaye-ngubani owaziyo? - mhlawumbi ezi ngcaphuno ezinkulu ziyakunceda ufumane indawo yakho ebomini.
1. "Ngolunye usuku kwixesha elizayo uya kuqonda ukuba iminyaka yomzabalazo yayiyona nto ibhetele ebomini", uSigmund Freud.
2. "Ukuba awuyithandi into, utshintshe. Ukuba awukwazi ukuyitshintsha, yiphatha ngokuhlukile, "uMaya Angelou.
3. "Ubunzima obukhulu beli hlabathi kukuba iidenge kunye nabaxhasi bahlala bezithemba, kwaye amadoda anesilumko ayaxhalaka," uBertrand Russell.
4. "Ukucamngca, apho thina apho sihlala khona, kuyahluke nalezo ezikhokelela apho sifuna khona," uAlbert Einstein.
5. "Ndixelele kwaye ndiyakulibala. Ndibonise-kwaye ndiyakhumbula. Yenze ndiyenze kwaye ndiya kuqonda, "uFucucius.
6. "Ndiyakholwa ukuba yonke into inesizathu. Abantu batshintsha ukuze ufunde indlela yokuyeka; zonke izinto ezizungezile ziyawa, ukuze ufunde ukuqonda xa yonke into iyinto eqhelekileyo; Ukholelwa xa uxoxwa ekugqibeleni ufunde ukuthembela wena kuphela; kwaye ngamanye amaxesha into entle iphuka iinqununu ukuze kwenziwe into engcono, "uMarilyn Monroe.
7. "Ungaze uvumeleke ukuba uxolo, ungalokothi uvumele nabani na kuni ukuba benze idini. Musa ukuphazamisa omnye umntu ebomini bakho - yenzele wena, "uDavid Frost.
8. "Uya kuyeka ukukhathazeka malunga noko abanye bacinga ngako kuwe, xa ubona ukuba kunqabile kangakanani," kusho u-Eleanor Roosevelt.
9. "Ukuba into engenayo inzuzo, akuthethi ukuba akukho nto ixabisa ngayo," uArthur Miller.
10. "thembisa ukuba uya kukhumbula ngonaphakade: unesibindi kunokuba ucinge, unamandla kunokuba ubonakale, kwaye unobulumko kunokuba ucinge," u-Alan Alexander Milne.
11. "Kukho indawo enye kuphela kwihlabathi onokuyenza ngcono ngokuzithemba - nguwe," u-Aldous Huxley.
12. "Umthi ugwetywa ngeziqhamo zawo, nomntu ngemisebenzi. Isenzo esihle asiyi kushiywa ngaphandle kokunakwa. Abo bahlwayayo bavuna ubuhlobo, kodwa ngubani oza kukhula, uya kuqokelela uthando, "uSt Basil.
13. "Akunjalo iindidi ezinamandla kunabo bonke abangenabulumko, kodwa abo banako ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza ukutshintsha," uCharles Darwin.
14. "Ixesha lincinci kulabo abalindayo, bekhawuleza kakhulu kwabo babesabayo, banokudezelela abo banesijwili, bancinci kakhulu kwabo banomdla, kodwa abo bathandayo, ixesha limi phakade", uHenry Van Dyke .
15. "Akudingeki ube yiqhawe elimangalisayo ukwenza into, khuphisana nomntu. Unokuba ngumntu oqhelekileyo, ukhuthaze ngokwaneleyo ukuphumeza iinjongo ezinzima, "uSir Edmund Hillary.