Kulo lonke ubomi, umntu udibana nabantu abahlukeneyo abangela uluhlu olukhulu lweemvakalelo. Siyakuthandwa, siyanconywa, sizithiywe, sikhuselwe, sikhutshwe, njl. Abagcini beengqondo kuphela, kodwa abantu bakholwayo bakholelwa ukuba awukwazi ukuqokelela umonakalo emphefumlweni wakho, kuba ukhokelela kwintlango. Kukhona umthandazo okhethekileyo wokukhubekisa nokusizonda, ukufunda apho umntu angazihlambulula kwizinto ezimbi aze aphumelele. Abafundisi bathi xa umntu evulela ukuthandazela iintshaba zakhe, oku kubonisa ukuzimisela kwakhe ukungena ebukumkanini bukaThixo.
Unokwenza umthandazo ukhankanywe kubini nasebandleni. Kubaluleke kakhulu kwindawo. Ukuba ufuna ukuvuma, ngoko phambi kwakhe, kufuneka uthandazele iintshaba ukuba uzicacele ukungabikho komthetho.
Kutheni sifunde umthandazo kwabo batshabayo baze basicasule?
Ukuze siqonde le ngxaki, siphakamisa ukujika kwimithombo yonqulo. Ngexa uYesu ebethelwe esiphambanweni, wajika waya kuThixo waza wamcela ukuba athethelele amajoni ayebandakanyeka ekubulaweni kunye nabantu ababebukele okwenzekayo kwaye bengenzi nto. Inkolo yobuKristu isoloko ithathwa ngokuba "ukuxolela", kuba kwiTestamente Elidala ukuziva ukuziphindisela kufakwe kwiluhlu lwezono ezimbi. Kukho umyalelo onjalo ocacisa ngokucacileyo umgaqo wokuxolela: "Ukuba uthe wahlaselwa kwesinye sidama, wabeka enye indawo." Ndandihlamba eli binzana kakhulu kunokuba, kubonakala, kuba linceda umntu ukuba ahlule ingozi kwiinjongo ezimbi. Amakholwa akholelwa ukuba ukuthandazela iintshaba ezizondayo kukunceda uhlambulule umphefumlo wakho uze usondele kuThixo.
Ngokwenene kuzo zonke iinkonzo kukho iindawo ezithile, uluhlu olubandakanya umnqweno wokuphindezela. EbuKristwini kukholelwa ukuba umntu odla ngokubandezela, uyamzonda abanye kwaye ufuna ukuphindiselela, umnyama umphefumlo wakhe. Kufuneka ukuba ufunde imithandazo rhoqo, kwaye wenze kuphela ngentliziyo ecocekileyo kunye neenjongo ezilungileyo. Ngaphambi kokuba kudingeke ukuba uThixo avulwe kuphela ngale ndlela, kuya kubakho ukufumana intsikelelo kunye nenkxaso evela kumaQumrhu aPhakamileyo.
Umthandazo wokuxolela abo bazondayo baze bandichukumise u-Ignaty Bryanchaninov
Lo mthandazo unombulelo ngakumbi, kuba ungcwele ucela ukuba uthumele uThixo kwiintshaba zeentsikelelo ezahlukeneyo. Oku kuchaza ukuba yiintshaba ezivumela umntu ukuba asondele kuThixo, ukufundisa ukuthobeka nokuqonda izono ezikhoyo.
Isicatshulwa somthandazo kulabo bazondayo baze basicasule:
"Ndiyabulela, Nkosi kunye noThixo wam, kuba konke okufeziwe kuphezu kwam! Ndiyabulela ngenxa yosizi kunye nezilingo owangithumelela kuzo ukuhlanjululwa kwabangcolileyo ngenxa yezono, ukuphiliswa kwezono ezibuhlungu, umphefumlo nomzimba wam! Yiba nenceba uze ugcine ezo zixhobo oye wasebenzisa ukuze ndiphilise: abo bantu bandithukayo. Basikelele kule nkulungwane ezayo! Banikelele kwizinto abayenzele zona! Banike abavela kubuncwane bakho obungunaphakade bemivuzo. Yintoni endikuzisa yona? Yintoni ekholisa ukuzincama? Ndazisa izono kuphela, ukuphulwa kwemithetho yakho. Ndixolele, Nkosi, xolela inetyala phambi kwakho naphambi kwabantu! Ukuxolela umthobekileyo kwaye ungabonakali! Ndivumele ukuba ndiqiniseke kwaye ndivume ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ndingumoni! Ndivule ukuba ndilase izaba Ndiphe ukuguquka! Ndiphe intliziyo ephukileyo! Ndiphe ukuthobeka nokuthobeka! Nika uthando kubamelwane bakho, bathande abangenasici, bafana nabo bonke, baze bathuthuzele baze bandithuke! Ndiphe umonde kuzo zonke iintlungu! Ndibulale ngenxa yoxolo! Ndihlambulule ukuthanda kwam isono, uze utshale intliziyo yakho entliziyweni, wenze ibe yinye kunye nokusebenza, kunye namazwi kunye neengcamango, kunye neemvakalelo zam. "
Kukhona eminye imithandazo kulabo abathandekayo baze basicasule.
Troparion, I-Tone 4:
"Nkosi yothando, owathandazela abo babethelela emnqamlezweni, nabafundi bakho malunga neentshaba ezithandazelayo! Abo batuthiyo baze basicasule, baxolele, baphenduke ebubini bonke nobukhohlakele kubomi bobuzalwana nobuhle, bebongoza ngokuthobeka: Masikuzukise wena, u-Humano, ngokuvisisana nengqondo enye. "
Kontakion, Ithoni yesihlanu:
"Njengokuba ungumfel 'ukholo wokuqala uStefan wakho wathandazela abo bambulalayo, Nkosi, kunye nathi, siwa kuwe, thandaza: xelela wonke umntu uze usicasule, xolele, ukuze kungabikho namnye kubo ngenxa yokulahleka, kodwa bonke basindiswa ngobabalo bakho, uThixo unenceba" .