Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, amaphupha apho sasidla ngokukhawuleza, ngokuchaseneyo, sithatha ulwazi oluntle. Ukufumana ingcaciso echanekileyo kunye nokwandiswa, kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukukhumbula ezinye iinkcukacha zesalathisi kunye neemvakalelo eziye zenzeka.
Kutheni uphupha ukukhala?
Abaninzi bamakhwenyana bavuma ukuba iphupha elinjalo libonisa ukuphela kwebhodi "emnyama" ebomini. Kungekudala zonke iingxaki ziza kuxazululwa, ukudumala kuya kudlulela, kwaye uya kunandipha ubomi. Iphupha elifanayo lingabonisa umnqweno wokufumana inkxaso kunye nothando kwabanye. Ukuba ufanele ukhale kakhulu ephupheni, ngoko unokulindela ukufumana inzuzo enzulu, kwaye kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu. Ukongezelela, kukho ithuba elikhulu lokunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi okanye ukwandisa ishishini. Isizathu sokuba iinyembezi zazihlambalaza - luphawu olulungileyo, olubonisa ukuba unokholo malunga nokuhlonipha nabanye.
Ukuba kwakufuneka ukhale kakhulu ephupheni ngenxa yezenzo zomnye umntu, isitoliki sephupha sichaza eli bali njengesixwayiso abanye abangenako ukulimaza. Umbono ebusuku, apho umntu ekhala khona engcwabeni, ubonisa ukuba isigqibo esithathwe ngokwenene siya kutshintshisa into ethile ebomini bakhe. Sekunjalo kunokufanisa ukuqala kwesigaba esitsha. Ukuba uphupha ukuba umntu wayekhala kakhulu, ngokukhawuleza uza kufumana iindaba eza kuba nefuthe elihle ebomini. Umbono ebusuku, apho ukhalela khona, kwaye yonke into ihamba kunye ne-sobs eqinile, kunye ne-hiccups, iprofeto impumelelo kuyo yonke imizamo. U-Snyknik uthi ngokubonisa ukuphikelela okuncinci, unako ukufezekisa neenjongo ezintle.
Ukukhala kakhulu ephupheni ehlezi embhedeni, kuthetha, kubalulekile ukulungiselela iingxaki ezinzulu. Kwintombazana, umbono wobusuku, apho umntwana ekhala khona, uthembisa ukudimazeka kumntu othandekayo. Ukuba umntwana unako ukuhlalisa phantsi, yonke into iya kuphelisa ngokukhuselekileyo.