Kutheni ungeke unike umlindo kumntu othandekayo?

Uninzi lwethu loyiko lunenkcazo elula kakhulu, esekelwe kwixesha elidlulileyo. Nokuba ityuwa efafaziwe ibonwa njengesiqalo senkcazo. Kodwa enyanisweni, kwangoko kwakukho unyango olubi kakhulu, kwaye ngoko i "golide" ehlakazekile yayisisisiseko sokuxabana. Ngoku iingcambu zilibalekile, kwaye uphawu luya kubantu. Ngoko izinto zikhona ngezipho. Ngaba uye wakha wazibuza ukuba kutheni uthanda kakhulu ukuba awukwazi ukunikela umlindi ? Masiqonde.

Ngaba banike umlindi?

Kucacile ukuba bayinikela kwaye banike rhoqo. Akunjalo konke kwaye kukho iingcaciso ezininzi. Okokuqala, utolo lwe-clock lilingana nesipho ngendlela yesandla okanye isicatshulwa esifanayo. Sekude kube lula ukudibanisa izinto ezinjalo kunye nabakhenkethi bemimoya emibi. Ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo, unika intsalela kwintsapho.

Enye inkcazo kutheni kungenakwenzeka ukunikela umlindo kumntu othandekayo okanye othandekayo uvela eMpuma. E- China , engaqhelekanga njengokuba ingavakala, iwashi inikezwe njengesimemo kumngcwabo. Okuyikrakra, kodwa inyaniso ihlala. Ukuba usichazela oko kumntu wethu, ngoko uthanda ukumnika umntu uhlalutyo lobomi bakhe. Bambalwa abantu abafana nale.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukunika umlindi umfana?

Ngethamsanqa, zonke iimpawu zikhunjulwa kwaye zihlonishwa ngokunyanisekileyo ngabasetyhini. Isiqingatha sabantu besiplanethi sethu sihlala sihleka ngokucacileyo kwisimo sengqondo esinjalo ngezinto. Ngoko kumbuzo wokuba kukufanelekile ukunika umlindo kumntu, phantse iipesenti ezilikhulu zingaphendulwa kwi-affirmative. Omnye umbuzo wukuthi umniki-mntu uhambelana njani nale. Masithi intombazana ayengazi de ibe yayifumana le mqondiso. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba, emva kokuziqhelanisa nomqondiso, uya kuqala ukukhangela izihlandlo zokuzibandakanya kwaye uhlalutye ngokoqobo ubudlelwane nomqondiso.

Kodwa amanye amantombazana kunye nabafana abakholelwa kulowo mqondiso kunye nabo impendulo yombuzo, kutheni unganiki umlindi, ngakumbi ngakumbi. Esi sisinye isikhumbuzo sokukhawuleza kwexesha kunye neminyaka engama-30, ezi ngcamango ziqala ukuhlasela ingqondo. Yintoni eyenziwe, kwaye oko akuzange kwenziwe kakuhle - iwashi ingaba yisisombululo sokucinga kwaye ngoko ke "wongeza intlanzi kwioli."

Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukubonisa ezo zipho kumntu osebenzayo okanye, nithi, umqokeleli. Ngokubanzi, nokuba umbuzo wokuba kungenakwenzeka ukunikela umlindo kumntu omthandayo akucelwa. Impendulo yodwa ingabangela isizathu sokuba banqwenele, bathi bakunzima ukuqagela ngoyilo. Ngoko ngokukhethekileyo ukucinga ngokwalo akuyimfuneko ukuba uqobo, kwanele ukunceda okanye ukubuza ngokuthe ngqo. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza umntu, ngokuchaseneyo, uya kuvuyisiswa ngesipho esiluncedo nesifashisayo?