Iimbono zezipho eziza kuhlala ngonaphakade.
Wonke umzali kufanele anike umntwana wakhe into ekhethekileyo, into ehlala isikhumbuza ngothando lwakhe olungapheliyo.
1. Ibhokisi enetikiti.
Kumntwana uhlale ekhumbula loo mi sebenzi eyamnika uvuyo, akunandaba nokuba uwatyelele kunye, okanye wahamba ngokwakhe.
2. Incwadi eneempendulo.
Ukuqokelela zonke iindlela zokupheka kwintsapho yakho kwiphepha elilodwa ukwenzela ukuba nangemva kweminyaka emashumi umntwana angapheka izitya ngoncedo lwakho. Kungcono ukubhala ngesandla. Ungalibali ukupenda yonke into ngokubanzi, kunye namanqaku.
3. Iimali zeesakhelo.
Ngokuzalwa komntwana, zonke izihlobo mazizithenge imali yemali yokuqokelela. Xa umntwana ekhula, isipho esinjalo sinokukhula ngokubaluleka kakhulu kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, unike inkxaso ngenkxaso yezemali.
4. Umthi wentsapho.
Yazi imbali yobuntu ibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba nomthi onjalo, umntwana akasoze akhohlwa ookhokho kunye nempumelelo yabo.
5. Ukurekhoda komculo.
Bhala phantsi ingoma yakho oyintandokazi yengane kwimisebenzi yakhe. Awukwazi ukucinga ukuba umntu omdala onomdla kwaye ochaphazelayo uya kuphulaphula ilizwi lomntwana wakho.
6. Iileta "Vula xa ...".
Khangela ubomi ukusuka ekuphakameni kweminyaka edlulileyo kwaye ucinge ngeliphi icebiso onokumnika umntwana wakho. Ukubhala okubhaliweyo kunye nokutywinwa kwiimvulophu. Tyikitya iileta, ngenjongo yinjongo. Mhlawumbi, ngolunye usuku amava abazali aya kunceda umntwana ukuba agweme iingxaki ezinzulu aze azikhusele kumava.
7. Utsha olutsha lweencwadi zezintandokazi zezingane.
Ukuqokelela ukuqokelela kwizinto ezifundwe ngumntwana ebuntwaneni ukuze afunde ezi ncwadi kubantwana bakhe nabazukulwana bakhe.
8. Inkondlo ngokuqoshwa.
Ngaba ndimele ndichaze indlela esiyithintelayo ngayo lesi sipho? Myalelo umhlobiso kunye nombhalo obalulekileyo, kwaye uya kuhlala ufudumala umphefumlo womntwana wakho.
9. Izicathulo zezingane kwisakhelo.
Gcina izicathulo zakho ezizithandayo kumntwana wakho, ayenxibe njengomntwana. Beka kwibhokisi yesipho. Ukuze wenze isipho sichukumise ngakumbi, unokubeka isithunzi somntwana kwizicathulo ezifanayo kwibhokisi.
10. Umlamli ngokuqoshwa.
Isipho sishukunyiswa ngokungathi nje. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kubantwana abaye bazimisela ngentshiseko kwaye abazange bahlukane negita ukususela ebuntwaneni.
11. Incwadi yembali yentsapho.
Ukuqokelela kwincwadi enye kwimbali yabo bonke okhokho. Mhlobise ngezithombe. Shiya amaphepha angenanto ukwenzela ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuncedisa le ncwadi ngamabali amatsha kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uyayidlulisela kubantwana bakhe.
12. Imibhobho yemilenze.
Into elula, kodwa isipho esifanelekileyo. Ekhangela isikhunta somlenze wakhe omncinci, umntwana uya kuhlala ekhumbula ukuba ukhululekile kangakanani ebuntwaneni bakhe, xa abazali bakhe bamnyamekela ngayo yonke indlela baze basombulule zonke iingxaki.
13. Intandokazi yeeteddy ebusweni.
Masibe nomntu ongenakukwazi ukulala naye umntwana ebuntwaneni, soloko ecala kunye kunye nokukhusela ubuthongo bakhe.
14. Ukhuni.
Njengomntwana, tyala umthi kunye nomntwana. Okokuqala, kuya kuba sisifundo esibalulekileyo kwisihloko sokongiwa kwemvelo. Okwesibini, umthi uyisimboli seentsapho ezinamandla. Nangona izalamane zingekho, umntwana uya kumnceda, kwaye uya kunika amandla.
15. Incwadi yezithombe zentsapho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kwintsapho yakho igcina imifanekiso eninzi. Ngoko kutheni ungakhethi okulungileyo kwiifoto kwaye ungenzi incwadi yesikhumbuzo kanye ngonyaka?
16. Ukutyelela kwiklasi yomntwana kunye nomntwana.
Into ephambili kukuba ukhethe isihloko esithakazelisayo. Yaye amava okufunda ngokubambisana nantoni na ayayi kuze ayilibale, kholwani!
17. Isongo ngeentsimbi.
Ukumiswa komntu ngamnye kufanekise umcimbi obalulekileyo ebomini bomntwana wakho.