Yiyiphi intombazana engaphupha ukuba yinto yokuqala yobuhle? Ngelishwa, ubuso obuhle, iinwele kunye nomfanekiso ovela kwimvelo - akukho nto, kodwa unokufikelela ekufezekeni ngoncedo lomsebenzi oqhelekileyo kuwe.
Kule nqaku siza kukuxelela indlela yokuba mnandi.
Yiba mnandi - ubukeka
Ekubonweni kokuqala, ukubonakala kubonakalisa izakhi zofuzo kunye nokuthambekela okuvela kubazali. Nangona kunjalo, khumbula indlela kwiiprogram ezithandwayo ze-TV ezenziwe ngabachwephesha abachwephesha kunye nabaculi bezilwanyana eziguqula "iigundane ezimpunga" kwiindawo ezihle. Kwaye amantombazana, ekhangele umphumo womsebenzi weqela leengcali, amangaliswa: ingaba yinto enhle kangaka? Kwaye kutheni ngaphambi kokuba bangenzeki ukuba bathathe inwele okanye basebenzise uhlobo oluthile lokumenza ... Ngeengubo kwaye akudingeki ukuba - iingubo ezikhethiweyo ngokufanelekileyo unokubhenkisisa naluphi na uhlobo.
Khumbula iingcebiso ezisisiseko ukuba ube yinto enhle kakhulu ngaphandle:
- Zihlolisise. Bhala phantsi ishedyuli ye-mini. Umzekelo: uMvulo unobumba beenwele; NgoLwesibini - ubuso obusweni, amaqoma abumba; NgoLwesithathu - umuthi; NgoLwesine - ukuhamba ngeenyawo, umlenze wecala; NgoLwesihlanu - ukususwa kweenwele emzimbeni; NgoMgqibelo-ukugubungela nokujonga ubuso; Ukunyamekela kwesikhumba ngeCawa (ukupenda, ukugaya, ukuhlamba).
- Jonga ukutya. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba bunjani ubunzima bakho, usadinga ukujonga ukutya kwakho okunobungozi nokutya ngokugqithiseleyo imeko yezinwele, ukukhuphaza kunye nokucaphuka kwesikhumba, kwaye kunokubangela izifo ezininzi.
- Yenza umsebenzi wemihla. Zama ukutya kunye nokulala ngexesha elinye ngosuku. Ukulala ii-8-9 iiyure ngosuku. Ukuziqhelanisa umzimba wakho kwi-regime, kwaye uya kuziva ukuba ungcono kangakanani.
- Chaza umzekelo wakho wombala . Oku kuya kukunceda uqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba yiyiphi imibala kunye nemibala oya kuyo, kwaye zeziphi ezikukutshintshisayo. Ulwazi lohlobo lombala luya kuba luncedo kuwe xa ukhetha iingubo kuphela, kodwa kunye nombala wezinwele zakho, kunye nokukhetha i-palette yokubumba.
- Qinisekisa uhlobo lwakho lobunjwa. Oku kuya kukunceda ukhethe iimpahla ezifanelekileyo, izicathulo kunye nezixhobo. Ukuze ufunde indlela yokuba yinto enhle kunye nefashini, jonga iindlela zokufashisa zakutshanje kunye neenvelties ze-cosmetology. Kodwa musa ukukhawuleza ukukopisha izinto ezingabonakaliyo kwiimagazini ezigcobayo kunye nemiboniso-sebenzisa kuphela okulungileyo kuwe.
- Yiya kwimidlalo. Khetha naluphi na, ngokwentetho yakho-imidlalo esebenzayo, ukufaneleka, ukuhamba, i- pilates , i-yoga, intaba, ubugcisa bokulwa. Unokuthatha inxaxheba kuphela kwiqela lezemidlalo, kodwa nakwimvelo okanye kwihostela yakho-kuya kuba nomnqweno, kwaye kuya kufumaneka ithuba.
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Yiba ngileyo - ihlabathi elingaphakathi
Ubuhle - imbono yohlobo lwe-ephemeral, olufihlakeleyo, oluzimeleyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba iyamkeleka ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho rhoqo abantu kuluntu kunye nokuqonda kwangaphambili kobuhle kunye nokunyaniseka.
Intombazana nganye kufuneka iqonde ukuba akunzima ukuyisebenzisa kwiinkonzo zobugqirha, kodwa ngokulinganisela kobuso kunye nomfanekiso ogqityiweyo unako ukuhlala ucinwa, udibene kwaye ungaqiniseki. Okona ngakumbi - ukuzithemba nokuziqhenqa udonko, emva kwesidima "esilungileyo" esilungile.
Vula ngolwazi olutsha, ufunde i-psychology, ufunde iincwadi. Mamela ngakumbi, ngaphantsi kokuxabana, ngokukodwa malunga noko ungayazi nto.
Yaye khumbula: ngeendlela ezininzi ubuhle bubangelwa ukuzithemba kunye nethemba lokuphila. Khangela ihlabathi nge-positive, kuba nobungane kwaye uyeke ukwenza ukufunyanwa kwakho kunye nokufumanisa iimpazamo zakho.
Ngoku uyazi ukuba wenzeni ukuze ube mnandi, oku kuthetha ukuba unyathelo elinye elikufuphi kwimeko efanelekileyo.
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