Ngomhla wama- 30 kaJulayi, ihlabathi libhiyozela uSuku loMhlobo lwaMazwe ngamazwe, oludla ngokudideka ngoSuku lwaMazwe ngamazwe. Ekuqalekeni, ezi ziholide ezifanayo, kodwa oku akukwenyani ngokupheleleyo. Kwabaninzi bethu, ubuhlobo bunengcamango yokuziphatha, ulwalamano oluhle lwabantu, oluyinto engaqhelekanga, kuba njengomyalo asikho abahlobo bokwenene.
Imbali yeeholide
Isigqibo sokubamba iSuku loBungane lwaMazwe ngamazwe ngoJuni 9 samukelwa ngo-2011 kwiNdibano yeZizwe eziManyeneyo. Injongo yalo kukuqinisa ubudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi kwamazwe onke ehlabathini. Namhlanje, le ngxaki iphuthuma ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili kwimimandla yemisebenzi yempi kunye neemfazwe ezinkulu kwamanye amazwe, xa ihlabathi lizele ubudlova nokungathembeki. Ukongezelela, kwanokuba abemi belizwe ngalinye, isixeko, okanye ikhaya bahlala benobundlobongela obundlobongelayo.
Injongo yokuzisa le holide yayikusekela isiseko esiqinileyo soxolo lokwiplanethi yethu, kungakhathaliseki uhlanga, inkcubeko, ubuzwe, izithethe kunye nezinye izinto ezahlukileyo kubemi behlabathi lethu.
Enye yezinto eziphambili ezibekelwe kwisiseko seeholide, ukubandakanyeka kwabantu abatsha, mhlawumbi kwixesha elizayo, iinkokheli eziza kubakhokela uluntu lwehlabathi ngenjongo yokukhuthaza ukuhlonipha kunye nokusebenzisana neenkcubeko ezahlukeneyo.
Yintoni ubuhlobo?
Sifundiswa ukususela ebuntwaneni ukuba sibahlobo kunye nabo bonke, kodwa ukucacisa le ngcamango, ukumnika ingcaciso engaqondakaliyo akunakwenzeka. Abafilosofi abaziintloko, izazi zeengqondo kunye nabalobi bazama ukwenza oku. Ngokuphathelele ubungqina obubhaliswe ezininzi iincwadi kunye nezingoma, badubula amakhulu amafilimu. Ngamaxesha onke, ubungqina babucingelwa njengexabiso eliphezulu kakhulu ngaphandle kokuthanda.
Kuyathakazelisa, kodwa abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba namhlanje ubungqina abuyiyo yonke ingqiqo. Omnye ukholelwa ukuba akakho, kwaye umntu uqinisekile ukuba lo mveliso.
Ifilosofi yaseJamani uHegel wayekholelwa ukuba ubuhlobo bunokwenzeka kuphela ebuntwaneni nasebuncinaneni. Ngeli thuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu abe ebantwini-eli lixesha eliphakathi lophuhliso lobuqu. Umntu omdala, njengomgaqo, akanalo ixesha labahlobo, kwindawo yabo yintsapho kunye nomsebenzi.
Bhiyozela njani le holide?
I-UN inqume ukuba umbuzo wendlela yoSuku lweZiko loBumnyama olubhiyozelwa ngayo uya kugqitywa ngokukhethekileyo kwilizwe ngalinye, ngokuqwalasela inkcubeko kunye nezithethe. Ngako oko, imisebenzi kumazwe ahlukeneyo ahlukeneyo, kodwa injongo ihlala ifana.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiSuku loMhlobo woBuhlobo lwaMazwe ngamazwe, kukho imicimbi ehlukahlukeneyo eyenza ubuhlobo kunye nobumbano phakathi kwabameli beenkcubeko ezahlukeneyo kunye neentlanga. Ngaloo mini, kunokwenzeka ukuba uye kwiimina zemfundiso kunye neentetho, ukutyelela inkampu, apho ingcamango izalwa khona ukuba ihlabathi lihluke kakhulu kwaye le nto iyingqayizivele kwaye ixabiso.
Ubuhlobo nabasetyhini
Ngoobani abahlobo abahle kakhulu: amadoda okanye abafazi? Ewe, ewe, sonke saziva ngokunyaniseka nokunyaniseka kobudlelwane besilisa, kodwa nangona kunjalo ukuba "ubuhlobo besini" abukho nhlobo. Imizekelo yobudlelwane obunyanisekileyo phakathi kwamadoda ayanele. Kodwa nantsi imimiselo yobudlelwane phakathi kwabameli besifazane kakhulu. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ubuhlobo babasetyhini bubudlelwane bexeshana. Nangona bobabini banenzuzo, ubuhlobo buya kuba khona. Kodwa ukuba iminqweno yabasetyhini idibanisa - yonke into: ubuhlobo njengoko akuzange kwenzeke! Kwaye, njengomthetho, amadoda ayisona sikhubekiso esikhulu.
Ngaba uyavumelana neembono zeengqondo? Ngokomntu, sikholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo kubuhlobo bokwenene nabangenabugovu bobabini besini!