Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kakhulu ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakho, kunye nemvakalelo yangempela yomntu othandekayo. Iimpendulo kwimibandela ebalulekileyo inokufumaneka ngokuqiqa "Yintoni entliziyweni?". Se benzisa kuphela kwiimeko ezizodwa, xa kukho amava okwenene. Ukuba umntu uqikelele ngenxa yokuzonwabisa, ngoko ke ubalekele ulwazi lwenyaniso alufanelekanga.
Ukuhlukana "Yintoni entliziyweni yomntu?"
Oku kuvumelanisa kukuvumela ukuba uqonde ukuba zeziphi iimvakalelo neemvakalelo ezifunyanwa ngumthandi okanye umhlobo osondeleyo. Kuye, kufuneka usebenzise iplanga eliqhelekileyo lamakhadi, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ayengasetyenziswanga ngaphambi komdlalo. Izindlela ezikhoyo zokuqikelela ukulula nokuzilawula ziya kuba nako abantu abangazange baqikelele ngaphambili. Ukuqhuba ubuqili ngamakhadi entliziyweni, kuyimfuneko ukucima ngokufanelekileyo umgangatho, kwaye ke, ukuhambisa inxalenye yakho ngesandla sakho sekhohlo. Nika amakhadi amathandathu uze uwabeke phambi kwakho, kwaye ke, qhubela phambili ukutolika:
- Inombolo yekhadi 1 - iingcamango zangempela zekhethiweyo;
- Inombolo yekhadi yesi-2 - kwenzeka ntoni entliziyweni yomlingane;
- Inombolo yekhadi 3 - ichaza iziganeko eziza kwenzeka kumntu kusasa elizayo;
- Inombolo yekhadi 4 - iimfuno zekhethiweyo;
- Inombolo yekhadi 5 - ikuvumela ukuba uqonde uhlobo luni loloyiko umntu analo;
- inombolo yekhadi 6 - inkcazo yelizwe jikelele.
Ukuqagela "Yintoni entliziyweni yakho intanda?" Ayikwazi ukuyenza rhoqo, ingakumbi ukuba ulwazi olufunyenweyo aluyithandi, kuba amakhadi aya kuthetha ubuxoki.
Ukuqagela "Yayiyintoni na? Yintoni eya kwenzeka? Kunokuba intliziyo ihlalise? ยป
Kuba ukubhula kusetyenziswa ipakethi yokudlala amakhadi. Okokuqala kufuneka ukhethe ikhadi eliza kumisela umntu onenhlanhla. Kuya kuba yinkosi okanye intombazana, kwaye ukhetho lufanelekile ukwenza, ugxile kwisini sakho. Umbala wekhadi kufuneka ukhethwe ngokwemibala yeenwele:
- iiplunettes;
- iimbungu - i-blondes;
- iiklabhu - shatens;
- iingcubha zibomvu.
Susa ikhadi elikhethiweyo ukusuka kwidonki, xuba amakhadi aseleyo kwaye ususe inxalenye kuwe. Beka phambi kwakho umgca ogciniweyo wamakhadi amahlanu, uwasuse ukusuka phezulu kwidonki. Emva koko, susa kwakhona inxalenye yeconti yakho, uze ubeke amanye amakhadi amahlanu ngaphezulu kobuxoki. Phinda inkqubo kathathu amaxesha, ngaphambi kokuba ungaba neenqumba ezintlanu zamakhadi amathathu nganye. Ekugqibeleni, susa ikhadi lokugqibela uze ulibeke ngokwahlukileyo ngaphantsi komgca ophezulu. Emva koko, ungaqhubeka nokutolika, uhamba ukusuka kwesobunxele ukuya kwesokudla:
- ukubeka inamba 1 - iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo;
- Inqwaba yenombolo 2 - yintoni entliziyweni;
- ukubeka inamba yesi-3 - indlu;
- ukubeka inamba 4 - idlulileyo;
- ukubeka inamba ye-5 - ikamva;
- ikhadi lokugcina - eliya kunceda ukuzinzisa intliziyo.