Iphupha apho umntu afuneka abone ukufa komntu omthandayo akushiye umva ongathandeki ixesha elide emva koko. Musa ukuzilungelelanisa into engalunganga, kuba ngamaxesha amaninzi amaphupha amabi, ngokuchaseneyo, athatha ulwazi oluchanekileyo. Ngoku wonke umntu unokujonga okanye angakuphikisi.
Ukufa kwesihlobo kuphupha ntoni?
Umbono ebusuku, apho umntu othandekayo efa ezandleni zakhe, ngumngqongqo wokuxabana nabazali bakhe, kwaye oku kuya kwenzeka kwikamva elikufuphi. Ukuba isihlobo siswele ngenxa yokugula, oku kuphawu oluhle, olubonisa ukuba ubomi kuya kuzinza kwaye akufanelekile ukukhathazeka ngabantu abasondeleyo. Ukuchazwa kwephupha ngokufa kwesinye isihlobo, okubangela ukuba bahlaziye balandelayo: kungekudala kubalulekile ukulindela ixesha lokuzonwabisa elihle kwiinkampani ezintle. Iphupha apho umphuphi ngokwakhe wabulala isihlobo sakhe uthembisa utshintsho olubi ebomini bakhe.
Ukuva ephupheni ngokufa kwesinye isihlobo, lowo lowo uphuphayo angayiboni ebomini bokwenene, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele, kuba ngenxa yezenzo zakhe umntu unokungena kwiimeko ezinzima. Iphupha apho isihlobo esifelayo, esele siphelile, sinokuqondwa nje ngeengcebiso ezifanele ukukhumbula umfi. Ukuba isihlobo siye safa ephupheni kunye nobudlelwane obunobomi bobubomi, ngoko ke, i-subconscious iyasitshela ukuba kungcono ukubheka abantu abajikelezile, kuba phakathi kwabo kukho umntu ofuna ukulimaza. Siza kuqonda ukuba yintoni iphupha lesithandana sesithandana, okanye endaweni yomntwana, isilumkiso sokuba iinjongo azizalwanga. UDreambook akacebisi naliphi na ishishini eliphambili kwixa elizayo, ngakumbi abo badibeneyo kwinqanaba lezinto eziphathekayo. Umbono ebusuku, apho isihlobo sifikile kude nawe,
Ukubona ephupheni ukufa kwesihlobo esiseduze, okanye kunoko unina, kuthetha ukuba kungekudala utshintsho olubi luya kwenzeka. Ukuba umama wasweleka ulwalamlo-kungumqondiso ukuba iintshaba zikulungele ukuthatha isinyathelo esinqumlekileyo sokuzisa ingozi. Iphupha lokufa kukayise yinto efanelekileyo, oko kuthetha ukuba kungekudala kuya kubakho ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nelitshaba elidala. Iphupha malunga neendaba zokufa kwesalamane, okanye kunoko udade, ngumqondiso omhle. Ukubona indlela umzalwana efa ngayo ephupheni kuthetha ukuba sifanele silindele ukufika kweendwendwe ezingalindelekanga, kodwa intlanganiso iza kubangela ezininzi iimvakalelo ezintle.