Isangqa asiqalanga okanye siphelo, kwaye ke sikhonza njengomqondiso wokuhlala kwaye sikhethwa ukukhumbula ukunyaniseka emtshatweni. Ngomunwe umkhwa womtshato womhlolokazi ugugile, imibono yendabuko iyahluke ngombono.
Ngokufa komyeni wakhe, ibhinqa linokugqiba isigqibo sokuba ukugqoka ingcambu ayinangqiqo, kuba into efuziselayo ichaza uhlobo lomtshato, kwaye ubudlelwane phakathi kwabafazi bubunzulu. Kodwa ukuba "ulwimi lwamacangci", oluye lwaqala ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, lubalulekile kumfazi, isiko sinquma indlela yokugqoka umtshato womtshato kumhlolokazi, nangona izikhokelo ziyahlukahluka.
Ziziphi iisongo ezigqutywa ngabahlolokazi?
I-rite ayiniki imiqathango engqongqo, nokuba ithwala ingcambu kwaye lide kangakanani. Owesifazane kuphela uyazi ukuba uya kuhlangabezana njani nentlungu . Ingaba wayefuna ukukhumbuzwa rhoqo kwonwaba? Ukuba imemori yomfazi inika umhlolokazi igunya lokuphila, ngoko kukho iindlela ezininzi zokugqoka amakhonkco:
- Zine zombini izindandatho zisekhoyini.
- Ngesandla sokunene sinobuqu, kunye neqabane lakho kwikhonkco.
- Bobabini ngomnwe omnye wesandla sasekhohlo.
- Kuyo ngakwesokunene, kunye nomyeni ngakwesobunxele.
Xa izandla zithatyathwa ukuba zambathise izindandatho, amasongo aqhelekileyo agqoke ngomunwe, ngezinye izikhathi kuthiwa ngumunwe. Ienkolelo zasendulo zithetha ukuba kule ndawo zikhokelela kwi-vein ekhokelela entliziyweni.
Kwakhona, ukhetho lweendlela zokugqoka luya kuthintela ubungakanani bendandatho, kuba indoda inowesifazane kwaye ifuna ukunyanzeliswa. Indondo eguqulelwe ngamandla ayinakuqondwa njengento yokuqala. Le meko ayinandaba xa ixakeke kwikhonkco.
Ngaphambili, iindandatho zazivame ukukhethwa ngomhlaba ogqithiseleyo, kwaye zinokuthi zifakwe kalula, kodwa imizekelo yanamhlanje ingaba nezakhiwo ezahlukeneyo. Izindandatho zomtshato zomhlolokazi, ezinomfanekiso, oboyiweyo okanye ovulekileyo ukuthungwa, kunzima ukulungisa. Ukuze kungaguquki ngokugqithiseleyo umjikelo, ukhetho lukhethwa kwi-ribbon okanye kwintambo.