Izipho zabafazi abakhulelweyo

Ixesha lokulinda umntwana lixesha elikhethekileyo ebomini bokomva kunye nosapho lwakhe. Kubalulekile ukuba ezi zinyanga ezili-9 zizaliswe zizivakalelo ezintle kunye nezikhumbuzo ezicacileyo. Ngako oko, akuyona into engathandabuzekiyo ukuba umfazi abe nesipho esithile. Loo mqondiso wokuqwalasela uya kuvumela umama ozayo ukuba abe nexhala kwaye avuye.

Izipho ezifanelekileyo kubasetyhini abakhulelweyo

Unokwenza umfazi into enokumnceda. Zama ukusebenzisa ezi ngcamango:

• Izambatho ezikhethekileyo ziza kuvumela umama ozayo ukuba agqoke ngokufanelekileyo nangendlela ephathekayo, kodwa uyayithenga ukuba uyazi ukuba ubukhulu bhinqa bhinqa, kunye nokuthanda kwakhe;
• izimonyo, nazo, ziza kufana ngqo nesipho kwisithandwa esikhulelweyo, udade, intombi, umzekelo, ibhotela okanye ukhilimu kumanqaku atyelweyo kuya kuba luncedo;
• into ebalulekileyo kakhulu, kuba nalo unokwenza umceli wokuzivocavoca owenzela ukuxhatshazwa emva, ukulungiselela umzimba ukuzala, kamva ungasetyenziselwa ukuqeqesha umntwana osanda kuzalwa;
• idayari yowesifazane okhulelweyo, apho kukho ulwazi oluncedo kwaye unokwenza amanqaku akho, izikhumbuzo;
• i-multivarka okanye i-blender iya kuba isipho esihle kakhulu somfazi okhulelwe, kuba le mishini yendlu iya kumnceda ukuba asebenze ngokukhawuleza nokulungiselela ukutya okunempilo.

Izipho zomphefumlo

Ekubeni oomama abazayo bayafuna iimvakalelo ezintle, umntu unokuza kunye nomnikelo onjalo oza kubhekiswa ekuphakanyiseni isimo sengqondo. Ukufezekisa kubafazi abakhulelwe isipho ngezandla zabo, ezenziwa ngothando. Ingaba yinto yokudlala egcotshiwe, eboshwe okanye eqoshiwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo izinto ezinjalo ziyancasa kwaye zivusa uvelwano.

Njengesipho kumntwana okhulelwe, unokuthenga isitifiketi sokuya kwiikhosi zabasetyhini abakhulelweyo, ingakumbi ukuba intsapho ikulindela owokuzalwa. Kule klasi, ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo kunye nokwenyama kuya kwenziwa. Sekunjalo kungabhaliselwa kwi- echibini okanye ukufaneleka kwimama kamva.

Isipho esihle kumfazi obelindele ukuba umntwana abe yiseseshoni yesithombe. Emva koko, abaninzi banqwenela ukufotshwa, ukudala iincwadi zezithombe.

Kwakhona, abafazi bayakuvuyela incwadi enomdla, amathikithi enkundleni yemidlalo okanye kwi-konsathi. Ukuba intombazana inithanda ukusebenza, ngoko unokumnika into yokuzilibazisa.

Ngamanye amaxesha abesetyhini abakhulelweyo bafumana izinto abaya kudingeka ngokuzalwa kwintsana. Ingaba yimpahla yabantwana, amathoyizi, izesekeli. Kodwa okokuqala, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba le ntokazi ayikholelwa inkolelo. Ngaphandle koko, unokuba ngumsindo kakhulu kwaye ukhathazeke.